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<p>Being able to afford to help your children establish a life is every parent&#39;s dream. Getting a head start also puts your child at an advantage in establishing a sustainable life. What happens if your child tries to cut you out of their life but also takes everything you&#39;ve provided for them as their own?</p><h2>Well, the internet has such a story, on a <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vnl1hw/aita_for_throwing_them_out_of_a_house_that_we_own/">popular Reddit thread</a> in the Am I The A**hole Subreddit a man asks if he&#39;s an a**hole for kicking his son and future-in-laws out of his house for trying to exclude his family from his wedding.</h2><blockquote> <p>AITA for throwing them out of a house that we own. Son and future In-Laws decided to exclude his family from the wedding. They thought my son owned the house, not us.</p> </blockquote><h2>OP got that wealth.</h2><blockquote> <p>My wife and I bought a four-bedroom house in PA that my son lives in. Our son went to college in PA and wanted to stay in the area. So we bought the house as a second home we live in NJ and commute into Manhattan for work. We figured that he would have a place to live and we could visit every so often and spend some quality time together.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>A modern-day love story.</h2><blockquote> <p>We pay the taxes and services/maintenance on the house while our son pays for his groceries and the house utilities. All was going well for a few years then our son meets a girl and they get serious. We met her and she seems nice enough. They announce their engagement and she moves into the house with our son.</p> </blockquote><h2>Weddings always bring out the worst in people.</h2><blockquote> <p>Now for the problem: The wedding !!!</p> <p>We hold a little get-to-know-you BBQ at the PA house my son and daughter are there as are our son&#39;s fianc&eacute;e and her parents and sisters. We all seem to be getting along well, my wife, daughter, and the fianc&eacute;e go into the house along with her mother, sisters, and my son. A few minutes later my wife and daughter come out and are really upset.</p> </blockquote><h2>What do you mean like you guys are Nickelback fans?</h2><blockquote> <p>They come over and tell me we&#39;re leaving and driving back to NJ. I try to find out what happened. Once we get back to NJ and they calmed down they tell me that our son and his fianc&eacute;e along with her family don&#39;t want us at the wedding. According to what I was told, &quot;We&#39;re not their kind of people&quot;.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Because you guys will make an unreasonable amount of requests for the DJ to play Nickelback?</h2><blockquote> <p>I was livid, I called my son and asked him WTH this was about. He tells me that her family feels that we are not good enough, that we&#39;ll embarrass them at a family wedding, and that we are all uninvited from the wedding.</p> </blockquote><h2>Okay, this even made me really mad.</h2><blockquote> <p>I let a week go by to calm myself down and drive back to the PA house and the new future in-laws are in the house along with the fianc&eacute;e. It appears that they all moved into the house after we left. They ask me why I&#39;m there and I tell them that since we aren&#39;t invited to the wedding I was coming over to talk to my son.</p> </blockquote><h2>OP just dunked on his future in-laws.</h2><blockquote> <p>My future in-laws tell me to leave their house. I lost it and told them that they had 30 days to get out. Tell my son I&#39;m selling &#39;their&#39; house and he could find somewhere else to live with all of you. I go to a realtor in town and list the house for sale.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Not even his son is safe from dunk city.</h2><blockquote> <p>They call my son at work and tell him what I said. Apparently, they thought that he owned the house. He calls me and asks why I&#39;m selling his house and I tell him I paid for it along with the taxes on it and it is mine. He was living there rent-free but since he doesn&#39;t want us in his new life he has to get out. I tell him the same as I told his future in-laws they have 30 days to get out then I&#39;ll get a lawyer and get them evicted.</p> </blockquote><h2>Well, internet what do we think?</h2><blockquote> <p>Am I the AH for taking a hard stance on this? He is my son but the in-laws seemed to have taken over and we no longer count.</p> </blockquote><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vnl1hw/comment/ie7pdi0/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">shooter0213</a> wants to know if your son ever understood the concept of consequences.</h2><blockquote> <p>NTA (Not the A**hole). I actually find it hilarious that he is soo entitled to the house he didn&#39;t even expect you to take it back after his actions. I believe this is exactly the reality check he needed.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vnl1hw/comment/ie7urre/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">Poppycorn144</a> wants a part two.</h2><blockquote> <p>NTA.</p> <p>And I want an update on this because it sounds nuts.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>What kind of people do they think you are? How was your son ok with excluding his whole family? Do you think your son&rsquo;s been brainwashed by his fianc&eacute;e? How did he think the house was &ldquo;his&rdquo; when he didn&rsquo;t pay the taxes on it?</p> <p>So many questions.</p> </blockquote><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vnl1hw/comment/ie7srdg/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">happy_meow </a>thinks OP needs to reconsider his lawyer timeline.</h2><blockquote> <p>NTA&hellip;.you don&rsquo;t need a lawyer in 30 days you need one NOW. I am not familiar with PA tenant laws but you need to follow everything by the book so that can&rsquo;t contest anything. I would also go back and video tape, with a time stamp, the entire property inside and out so they can be held accountable for any damage done.</p> </blockquote><h2>OP your son clearly has no respect for you and what you&#39;ve provided him. Unlike me someone that respects you and would invite you to his wedding if you let me live in a house rent free.</h2><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Man asks if he was wrong to kick son out after he tries to steal house for in-laws.

Being able to afford to help your children establish a life is every parent&#39;s dream. Getting a head start also puts your child at an advantage in establishing a sustainable life. What happens if your child tries to cut you out of their life but also takes everything you&#39;ve provided for them as their own?Well, the internet has such a story, on a popular Reddit thread in the Am I The A**hole Subreddit a man asks if he&#39;s an a**hole for kicking his son and future-in-laws out of his house for trying to exclude his family from his wedding. AITA for throwing them out of a house that we own. Son and future In-Laws decided to exclude his family from the wedding. They thought my son owned the house, not us. OP got that wealth. My wife and I bought a four-bedroom house in PA that my son lives in. Our son went to college in PA and wanted to stay in the area. So we bought the house as a second home we live in NJ and commute into Manhattan for work. We figured that he would have a place to live and we could visit every so often and spend some quality time together. A modern-day love story. We pay the taxes and services/maintenance on the house while our son pays for his groceries and the house utilities. All was going well for a few years then our son meets a girl and they get serious. We met her and she seems nice enough. They announce their engagement and she moves into the house with our son. Weddings always bring out the worst in people. Now for the problem: The wedding !!! We hold a little get-to-know-you BBQ at the PA house my son and daughter are there as are our son&#39;s fianc&eacute;e and her parents and sisters. We all seem to be getting along well, my wife, daughter, and the fianc&eacute;e go into the house along with her mother, sisters, and my son. A few minutes later my wife and daughter come out and are really upset. What do you mean like you guys are Nickelback fans? They come over and tell me we&#39;re leaving and driving back to NJ. I try to find out what happened. Once we get back to NJ and they calmed down they tell me that our son and his fianc&eacute;e along with her family don&#39;t want us at the wedding. According to what I was told, &quot;We&#39;re not their kind of people&quot;. Because you guys will make an unreasonable amount of requests for the DJ to play Nickelback? I was livid, I called my son and asked him WTH this was about. He tells me that her family feels that we are not good enough, that we&#39;ll embarrass them at a family wedding, and that we are all uninvited from the wedding. Okay, this even made me really mad. I let a week go by to calm myself down and drive back to the PA house and the new future in-laws are in the house along with the fianc&eacute;e. It appears that they all moved into the house after we left. They ask me why I&#39;m there and I tell them that since we aren&#39;t invited to the wedding I was coming over to talk to my son. OP just dunked on his future in-laws. My future in-laws tell me to leave their house. I lost it and told them that they had 30 days to get out. Tell my son I&#39;m selling &#39;their&#39; house and he could find somewhere else to live with all of you. I go to a realtor in town and list the house for sale. Not even his son is safe from dunk city. They call my son at work and tell him what I said. Apparently, they thought that he owned the house. He calls me and asks why I&#39;m selling his house and I tell him I paid for it along with the taxes on it and it is mine. He was living there rent-free but since he doesn&#39;t want us in his new life he has to get out. I tell him the same as I told his future in-laws they have 30 days to get out then I&#39;ll get a lawyer and get them evicted. Well, internet what do we think? Am I the AH for taking a hard stance on this? He is my son but the in-laws seemed to have taken over and we no longer count. shooter0213 wants to know if your son ever understood the concept of consequences. NTA (Not the A**hole). I actually find it hilarious that he is soo entitled to the house he didn&#39;t even expect you to take it back after his actions. I believe this is exactly the reality check he needed. Poppycorn144 wants a part two. NTA. And I want an update on this because it sounds nuts.  What kind of people do they think you are? How was your son ok with excluding his whole family? Do you think your son&rsquo;s been brainwashed by his fianc&eacute;e? How did he think the house was &ldquo;his&rdquo; when he didn&rsquo;t pay the taxes on it? So many questions. happy_meow thinks OP needs to reconsider his lawyer timeline. NTA&hellip;.you don&rsquo;t need a lawyer in 30 days you need one NOW. I am not familiar with PA tenant laws but you need to follow everything by the book so that can&rsquo;t contest anything. I would also go back and video tape, with a time stamp, the entire property inside and out so they can be held accountable for any damage done. OP your son clearly has no respect for you and what you&#39;ve provided him. Unlike me someone that respects you and would invite you to his wedding if you let me live in a house rent free.

Being able to afford to help your children establish a life is every parent&#39;s dream. Getting a head start also puts your child at an advantage in establishing a sustainable life. What happens if your child tries to cut you out of their...