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<p>A wedding-shamer got wedding-shaming-shamed for wedding-shaming, because they didn&#39;t have any chill or patience when it came to getting a thank you card.</p><p>Redditor <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/imtiredofthisgrandpa/" target="_blank">imtiredofthisgrandpa</a> shared a post from their friend who got a shady anonymous letter from a wedding attendee blasting the couple for not sending a thank you card for their gift within weeks of the wedding.</p><p>'We would like to say what a lot of nerve you had to ask for money for a wedding present and then of course not even send A thank you,' the person wrote.</p><p> </p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="The 'No Thank You?' card." data-attribution="Reddit: imtiredofthisgrandpa" data-attribution-url="https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/e93msa/friend_gave_me_permission_to_post_this_letter/" height="375" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/insta-YPCivD.jpg" width="640" /></div> <figcaption>The 'No Thank You?' card.</figcaption> <div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/e93msa/friend_gave_me_permission_to_post_this_letter/">Reddit: imtiredofthisgrandpa</a></div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>The Redditor&#39;s friend explained in the caption of their Instagram post why they hadn&#39;t send out that particular letter yet, and it puts things into perspective.</p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Reddit: imtiredofthisgrandpa" data-attribution-url="https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/e93msa/friend_gave_me_permission_to_post_this_letter/" height="495" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/caption-clebiM.jpg" width="640" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/e93msa/friend_gave_me_permission_to_post_this_letter/">Reddit: imtiredofthisgrandpa</a></div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>It says:</p><blockquote> <p>If someone could just let Jonathan Lewis or I know who sent this that would be great since there was no return address. I still have the list and cards to send out of Thank You&#39;s [sic] that unfortunately have been set aside so that both of us working 100+ hours a week, coaching a softball team from the second the wedding was over, raising our girls and trying to stay afloat in everyday life.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I will gladly send back what you sent us and I apologize we haven&#39;t sent them I had every intention of doing so but unfortunately life hasn&#39;t been kind to our family since our wedding day and have had kick after kick that I don&#39;t choose to share on social media and Thank You cards got a back seat.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>What kind of person sends a rude, anonymous letter to a pair of newlyweds?</p><p>Hopefully the kind of person who feels guilty after learning that people have lives that don&#39;t revolve around their stationery.</p><p>The commenters on the post were sympathetic to the newlywed&#39;s plight, with some even arguing that thank you cards aren&#39;t required.</p><blockquote> <p>'For all the weddings I&#39;ve been to, I&#39;ve received a thank you card only once. I personally feel a nice dinner and booze at the reception is thanks enough not to mention i&#39;m honored that of everyone they know I made the invite list,' ​​<a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Sheep_Viking/" target="_blank">Sheep_Viking</a> wrote.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>'Yikes!! Who has the time and energy to be that bitter over not receiving a thank you card?' <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Dinkey9/" target="_blank">Dinkey9</a> commented.</p> </blockquote><p>Not everyone has as much time to write thank you cards as the bitter attendee has to write cards shaming somebody for not writing a thank you card.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman shares letter from wedding guest complaining about not getting thank you card.

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A wedding-shamer got wedding-shaming-shamed for wedding-shaming, because they didn&#39;t have any chill or patience when it came to getting a thank you card.Redditor imtiredofthisgrandpa shared a post from their friend who got a shady anonymous letter from a wedding attendee blasting the couple for not sending a thank you card for their gift within weeks of the wedding.'We would like to say what a lot of nerve you had to ask for money for a wedding present and then of course not even send A thank you,' the person wrote.  The 'No Thank You?' card. Reddit: imtiredofthisgrandpaThe Redditor&#39;s friend explained in the caption of their Instagram post why they hadn&#39;t send out that particular letter yet, and it puts things into perspective.Reddit: imtiredofthisgrandpaIt says: If someone could just let Jonathan Lewis or I know who sent this that would be great since there was no return address. I still have the list and cards to send out of Thank You&#39;s [sic] that unfortunately have been set aside so that both of us working 100+ hours a week, coaching a softball team from the second the wedding was over, raising our girls and trying to stay afloat in everyday life.  I will gladly send back what you sent us and I apologize we haven&#39;t sent them I had every intention of doing so but unfortunately life hasn&#39;t been kind to our family since our wedding day and have had kick after kick that I don&#39;t choose to share on social media and Thank You cards got a back seat. What kind of person sends a rude, anonymous letter to a pair of newlyweds?Hopefully the kind of person who feels guilty after learning that people have lives that don&#39;t revolve around their stationery.The commenters on the post were sympathetic to the newlywed&#39;s plight, with some even arguing that thank you cards aren&#39;t required. 'For all the weddings I&#39;ve been to, I&#39;ve received a thank you card only once. I personally feel a nice dinner and booze at the reception is thanks enough not to mention i&#39;m honored that of everyone they know I made the invite list,' ​​Sheep_Viking wrote.  'Yikes!! Who has the time and energy to be that bitter over not receiving a thank you card?' Dinkey9 commented. Not everyone has as much time to write thank you cards as the bitter attendee has to write cards shaming somebody for not writing a thank you card.

A wedding-shamer got wedding-shaming-shamed for wedding-shaming, because they didn&#39;t have any chill or patience when it came to getting a thank you card.  Redditor imtiredofthisgrandpa shared a post from their friend who got a shady...