In the year of our lord 2020, what kind of guy still things that being mean to a woman is a way to get her to like you? A bro leaning on "negging" would at least make some sense when How I Met You Mother as on TV and people thought that Barney Stinson was a cool character, but now?
A bro named Rob tried to endear himself to Reddit user CouchTomato212 by calling her stunning, and then insulting her by saying that she'd "spend more time drinking/partying/on Insta than in a relationship lol."
Dude: just because you say "lol" after being judgemental doesn't mean you're not being an a-hole!