There are some ways to sort through the masses and find your soulmate, you just have to know what to be looking out for. For me, if a person's profile says they don't like animals, that would be an instant deal breaker because my dog is my BFF.
When every picture on their profile is filtered. You do realize I’ll be meeting you as unfiltered right?
"Just ask" was always an instant no from me. Plenty of other people provide some kind of info to go on, so why would I choose the low-effort profile?