Early dating is fun because the hormones in your brain make you think everything about the person is adorable—from the way they chew to the way they explain everything to you, sometimes twice. But long-term commitment has a way of transforming people before your eyes, and things you once found adorably quirky might make you want to scream into your pillow if you co-habitate long enough.
Someone asked married people of Reddit: "what’s something your SO does that you used to find cute when you were dating but now irritates/infuriates/ annoys you?"
1.) Being a morning person.
His happiness in the mornings, used to make me feel a bit more cheery as we both were up at the asscrack of dawn and he’d just be happy to start his day while I wasn’t too happy, I’m not a morning person, but I have rarely gotten to sleep in past 5 o’clock since I was 14, and now I unfortunately wake up at the time even when I don’t have too. Now instead of making me more cheery in the mornings I just feel irritated, which is completely dumb, because he’s just being his normal happy self, but f*ck, dude, quite being so damn pleasant so early in the damn morning it’s pissing me off. It also pisses off our toddlers, who hate mornings just as bad and want him to stop singing to them while they eat their breakfast, but when that happens I feel better, because damnit if I’ve gotta listen to him be happy so do you, ya little shits