Marriage

<blockquote> <p>My wife &#39;Hannah&#39; (F30) and I (M33) are going on a Europe vacation next year, visiting England, Italy and France. We got married a couple of months ago, so this is meant to be a late honeymoon.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Hannah and I are in the process of booking everything, we split it up so I was in charge of booking hotels and Hannah flights, and we checked with each other obviously. Well, yesterday she booked the flights and all of them were business/first class.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>We have a flight from Paris to Milan and I said to go with a budget airline, but she booked that with Air France which is like, triple the price of the others.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I was furious. I asked her why she spent so much money on flights, Hannah said she thought we should spoil ourselves with all the luxuries for our honeymoon. I told her we need to change all of those to economy. She said I could change mine if I wanted, but she wants to experience first class for once.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>We&#39;ve been arguing about this, her reasoning is we (I) can afford it so why not. I have a well paying job, but this doesn&#39;t mean I can throw around money like this. I eventually said she can have all the first class flights she wants, but we need to drop one of the countries to use the hotel/sightseeing money for the plane.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Hannah got really upset and said she was just trying to make our honeymoon special. AITA?</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>ETA: we did discuss everything before booking, which hotels to book, which flights, etc.</p> </blockquote><p>Comments:</p><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/MrsWitte83/">MrsWitte83</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>NTA. I&#39;m married but I am super petty. I would cancel the whole thing. Money doesn&#39;t grow on trees and if her only argument is that you can afford it....girl bye. She made a unilateral decision after you both discussed everything prior and that is not ok. Ask her to pay the difference between economy and first class. NTA.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/RecommendsMalazan/">RecommendsMalazan</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>NTA. You say you had discussed what flights beforehand. So your wife is just saying fuck that and making her own decision, I guess? Not cool.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/SirMarsprellot/">SirMarsprellot</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>NTA, she needs to be a bit more understanding. You&#39;re being reasonable.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Wife books first class plane tickets for honeymoon; husband says 'fly by yourself.'

 My wife &#39;Hannah&#39; (F30) and I (M33) are going on a Europe vacation next year, visiting England, Italy and France. We got married a couple of months ago, so this is meant to be a late honeymoon.  Hannah and I are in the process of booking everything, we split it up so I was in charge of booking hotels and Hannah flights, and we checked with each other obviously. Well, yesterday she booked the flights and all of them were business/first class.  We have a flight from Paris to Milan and I said to go with a budget airline, but she booked that with Air France which is like, triple the price of the others.  I was furious. I asked her why she spent so much money on flights, Hannah said she thought we should spoil ourselves with all the luxuries for our honeymoon. I told her we need to change all of those to economy. She said I could change mine if I wanted, but she wants to experience first class for once.  We&#39;ve been arguing about this, her reasoning is we (I) can afford it so why not. I have a well paying job, but this doesn&#39;t mean I can throw around money like this. I eventually said she can have all the first class flights she wants, but we need to drop one of the countries to use the hotel/sightseeing money for the plane.  Hannah got really upset and said she was just trying to make our honeymoon special. AITA?  ETA: we did discuss everything before booking, which hotels to book, which flights, etc. Comments:MrsWitte83 says: NTA. I&#39;m married but I am super petty. I would cancel the whole thing. Money doesn&#39;t grow on trees and if her only argument is that you can afford it....girl bye. She made a unilateral decision after you both discussed everything prior and that is not ok. Ask her to pay the difference between economy and first class. NTA. RecommendsMalazan says: NTA. You say you had discussed what flights beforehand. So your wife is just saying fuck that and making her own decision, I guess? Not cool. SirMarsprellot says: NTA, she needs to be a bit more understanding. You&#39;re being reasonable. 

My wife &#39;Hannah&#39; (F30) and I (M33) are going on a Europe vacation next year, visiting England, Italy and France. We got married a couple of months ago, so this is meant to be a late honeymoon.    Hannah and I are in the process of...