It's hard to say whether or not you should go out after you have a baby. When this father to be is conflicted, he takes to the popular Reddit forum to ask:
Keep getting into an argument with my wife, that keep getting worse. we are due to have our first child (our first together she has 3 older children that live with us) later this month.
I bought tickets for a concert that is approximately 3 weeks after her delivery date (if we make it that far) and she keeps accusing me of being not caring for wanting to go to it. Saying she can't believe I care more about a concert than our daughter and how could I want to leave her.
I told her that one night out shouldn't be that big of deal, I'm already using 6 weeks paid time off I have accumulated at my job to be there when the baby is born to be around full time and one night away for a few hours shouldn't be that big of deal.