When this man is upset with his grandmother, he asks Reddit:
My wife and I have tried for seven years to have a child, five years ago we discovered we will never be able to have one together.
We looked into IUI, IVF, adoption, and even fostering and finally settled on adoption as it was a guarantee for a child even though we might have to wait years for a match.
We finally got matched and fairly recently our daughter was born, but was an addict at birth and had to go through a round of morphine to help with withdrawals so was in the NICU for a week. She was also born with a respiratory issue.
She is almost month old and my grandmother recently posted on FB talking about is she wrong for being upset she can’t see her yet because of how old she is (mid 80s).