Man's son is dating fiancé's daughter, new wife is 'scandalized.'
When this groom to be is torn about his son's latest romance, he asks Reddit:
'AITA for, while absolutely being okay with it, telling my son it's weird that he is dating his step sister?'
My son 27 is in a relationship with my fiancee's daughter 23. When they met they had no idea that I was dating the mom. My fiancee and I recently set out wedding date and well they figured it out because they both got invitations to the same wedding.
They think it's hilarious. And I think that it's strange but there's nothing wrong. They met in another city while he was working and she was studying.
My wife however is freaking out. She thinks it's a scandal and that I need to tell him to break up with her.
So now I'm in the middle. So I called my son and told him that his dating life was his business but that it was going to make for some interesting family dynamics if they lasted.
Now he is laughing at me for assuming so much about a new relationship of his and my wife if mad because I wasn't more forceful in my denunciation of his relationship.
I'm just trying to keep the peace but I'm coming off as an asshole.
My fiancee and I live in Montana. My son and his girlfriend live in Washington state. She lives with her dad there. That's why they didn't know about our dating. AITA? Should i put a stop to this?
Let's find out.
lurninlurkin writes:
Weirdest part to me is that you're both on your 2nd marriages and assuming that their relationship is less important or may not last as long as your own. Your fiance is TA.
electricaldate1951 writes:
The audacity of this woman.It sounds like both OP and his fiancee barely have a relationship with their respective kids since this connection was only revealed when the son and daughter got invites to the same wedding.
Given this nugget, I doubt both parties will be interacting that often anyway. But, if she has such an issue with the relationship dynamic or is so worried about what others will think, then she can break up with OP.