When this internet user is upset with their family's rules, they ask Reddit:
I (19 afab non-binary woman) was raised extremely religious in a culty catholic sect. My parents are in this sect still. Recently, my preteen sister died in a tragic vehicular accident.
They did the funeral in the catholic cult tradition. All women were required to wear skirts. Due to religious trauma and gender issues, in top of what I was dealing with, I could not deal putting on a skirt.
My family knows I refuse ti wear skirts which is why they made that a requirement to attend her funeral. It's not my fault my little sisters funeral was being said in this rite, and I'm an adult I can choose what to wear.
I wasn't going to miss my own sisters funeral, So I attended the funeral in a nice pants suit. After the funeral my dad screamed at me saying I “can't even be respectful of my own sister” and “would’ve of killed me to put on a skirt for a couple hours?”