When this young woman gets married and gets her teen cousin drunk at the wedding, she asks Reddit:
I (21F) got married last month to my husband (21M). We got together years ago at a party he threw and our wedding was reflective of that; we're still young and planned the wedding to be a huge party.
The invitations stated it was not going to be a child-appropriate wedding at all, and that we didn't want any kids under age 12 there. Teens could come but at their parents' discretion.
The night was fantastic, but about halfway through my mom came up to me to tell me that my aunt was bad-mouthing me to some of our close relatives. I just shrugged it off because I didn't want to cause drama at my own wedding.