When someone is a bad parent, it's hard to say whether or not you should do something about it. When this woman is conflicted about her stepsister, she asks Reddit:
My step sister recently had a baby, throughout her entire pregnancy she smoked ecigs.
Her baby was born and had to go to the NICU due to poor blood sugars and feedings. I asked my step mother if they informed the doctor’s that she smoked ecigs throughout her pregnancy and drank very occasionally, as a potential cause for his issues.
It was not taken well and my entire family ganged up on me . Saying I was out of line for asking that and that IATA . I told them that they say not to smoke anything during pregnancy for a reason and that I went cold turkey the day I found out I was pregnant.
(Background EVERYONE in the family does ecigs). It can be a sore subject for most but I feel like the doctors should know. AITA?