When this woman is frustrated with her living situation, she asks Reddit:
My f29, husband's m34, best friend (Jacob) m30 moved in with us. He's quiet and doesn't make a mess around the house like BIL used to while he lived with us.
However, Jacob has this habit of walking into the bedroom randomly to take stuff from my husband's closet. say a watch or a shirt. He does it more frequently and it's gotten increasingly annoying.
I felt like my privacy was being violated because I'm a private person, I'd like to have quiet time reading or mediate. I tried to speak up on the issue but got brushed off by both of them.
Last week, Jacob barged in at 11pm and interrupted my sleep. I was sleep deprived the whole day at work. I got fed up so what I had decided to do is start sleeping on top of the bed full naked whenever I'm in there.