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<p>When this woman feels taken advantage of, she asks <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/xf3my2/aita_for_leaving_the_restaurant_before_my/">Reddit:</a></p><h2>&quot;AITA for leaving the restaurant before my boyfriend&#39;s family arrived after I was told that I was going to pay for their meals?&quot;</h2><blockquote> <p>I (f29) have been dating my boyfriend (m35) &#39;Ricky&#39; for 5 months. He&#39;s divorced but hates this word and goes with the word &quot;divorcee&quot; instead since the first one makes it sound like he was &quot;dumped&quot; when it was him who initiated it.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Anyways, He always go on long rants about his exes and say stuff like &quot;I hope you don&#39;t have this awful habit my ex has&quot; or &quot;hope you like XYZ cause my ex didn&#39;t&quot; and the list goes on.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I found a 2nd job recently and he&#39;s been having me pay every time we go out. When I protest he&#39;d say he&#39;s going through a rough patch and is seeing how much help I cam offer.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Last night he invited his family to join us for dinner. We got to the restaurant first. He asked me if I &quot;brought&quot; enough momey, I said why and he told me that he told his parents that I&#39;d pay for their meals.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>I said why would I and he went on about his parents going through a rough patch just like him. I said &quot;I&#39;m sorry this can&#39;t be a coincidence!&quot; he asked what I meant and I told him that I would not be paying.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>He insisted, I refused and said no. He then leaned back and said &quot;well, you&#39;re here, so not much of a choice you have anyway&quot; while laughing like it was funny. I silently got up, took my phone and purse and walked right out.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>He was shocked he started shouting after me to stop and wait but I didn&#39;t.I went home and he called me enraged saying that I did a horrible thing walking out on him and his parents, while I could&#39;ve just paid.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I told him that their unfortunate financial situation isn&#39;t my problem and that I wasn&#39;t obligated to pay for their food. If they couldn&#39;t pay for their meals, then they should not go out. He got offended and said and I qoute &quot;you&#39;re making money a priority just like my ex did .</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>Then went on about how disrespectful my attitude was and how I made him look small infront of his parents and forced him to lie about why I wasn&#39;t there when they came.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>We&#39;ve been going back an forth about it til now. He&#39;s mad and is refusing to speak to me til I apologize. AITA? I feel bad because his parents are lovely and I been doing my best to keep a good relationship with them.</p> </blockquote><h2>Let&#39;s find out.</h2><p> </p><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/33ayin/">33ayin</a> writes:</p><blockquote> <p>OMG - GIRL RUN!!!! This is NOT a man you want or need in your life! Go, go, go and don&#39;t look back - like ever!! NTA by a long shot</p> </blockquote><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/GamesCatsComics/">gamescatcomics</a> writes:</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>Divorcee vs Divorced - Red Flag<br /> Ranting about his ex on repeat - Red Flag<br /> Expecting you to pay for everything - Red Flag</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p><br /> &quot;Seeing how much help I can offer&quot; - Red Flag<br /> Expecting you to pay for his parents, and not warning you ahead of time - Red Flag<br /> Comparing you to an ex because you don&#39;t want to pay for his family - Red Flag</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>This dude is full of red flags. it&#39;s time to run. NTA.</p> </blockquote><p> </p><h2>Well, looks like OP is NTA! Should she break up ASAP? What do YOU think?</h2><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman 'humiliates' BF at restaurant when she refuses to pay for his parents.

When this woman feels taken advantage of, she asks Reddit:&quot;AITA for leaving the restaurant before my boyfriend&#39;s family arrived after I was told that I was going to pay for their meals?&quot; I (f29) have been dating my boyfriend (m35) &#39;Ricky&#39; for 5 months. He&#39;s divorced but hates this word and goes with the word &quot;divorcee&quot; instead since the first one makes it sound like he was &quot;dumped&quot; when it was him who initiated it.  Anyways, He always go on long rants about his exes and say stuff like &quot;I hope you don&#39;t have this awful habit my ex has&quot; or &quot;hope you like XYZ cause my ex didn&#39;t&quot; and the list goes on.  I found a 2nd job recently and he&#39;s been having me pay every time we go out. When I protest he&#39;d say he&#39;s going through a rough patch and is seeing how much help I cam offer.  Last night he invited his family to join us for dinner. We got to the restaurant first. He asked me if I &quot;brought&quot; enough momey, I said why and he told me that he told his parents that I&#39;d pay for their meals.  I said why would I and he went on about his parents going through a rough patch just like him. I said &quot;I&#39;m sorry this can&#39;t be a coincidence!&quot; he asked what I meant and I told him that I would not be paying.  He insisted, I refused and said no. He then leaned back and said &quot;well, you&#39;re here, so not much of a choice you have anyway&quot; while laughing like it was funny. I silently got up, took my phone and purse and walked right out.  He was shocked he started shouting after me to stop and wait but I didn&#39;t.I went home and he called me enraged saying that I did a horrible thing walking out on him and his parents, while I could&#39;ve just paid.  I told him that their unfortunate financial situation isn&#39;t my problem and that I wasn&#39;t obligated to pay for their food. If they couldn&#39;t pay for their meals, then they should not go out. He got offended and said and I qoute &quot;you&#39;re making money a priority just like my ex did .  Then went on about how disrespectful my attitude was and how I made him look small infront of his parents and forced him to lie about why I wasn&#39;t there when they came.  We&#39;ve been going back an forth about it til now. He&#39;s mad and is refusing to speak to me til I apologize. AITA? I feel bad because his parents are lovely and I been doing my best to keep a good relationship with them. Let&#39;s find out. 33ayin writes: OMG - GIRL RUN!!!! This is NOT a man you want or need in your life! Go, go, go and don&#39;t look back - like ever!! NTA by a long shot gamescatcomics writes: Divorcee vs Divorced - Red Flag Ranting about his ex on repeat - Red Flag Expecting you to pay for everything - Red Flag   &quot;Seeing how much help I can offer&quot; - Red Flag Expecting you to pay for his parents, and not warning you ahead of time - Red Flag Comparing you to an ex because you don&#39;t want to pay for his family - Red Flag  This dude is full of red flags. it&#39;s time to run. NTA.  Well, looks like OP is NTA! Should she break up ASAP? What do YOU think?

When this woman feels taken advantage of, she asks Reddit:  &quot;AITA for leaving the restaurant before my boyfriend&#39;s family arrived after I was told that I was going to pay for their meals?&quot;   I (f29) have been dating my...