There's a common myth among white people that a person "can't be racist" if they've ever dated or slept with a person of color, or married one, or if they have non-white friends or children or family members. This makes no sense if you think about it—100% of misogynists are related or married to one or have one in their inner circle. You can harbor hatred for a group of people and still want to sleep with them. Men do it all the time with women.
He was meeting the woman at Rum Kitchen, a Caribbean restaurant in London, when she sent him a WhatsApp message asking if the restaurant had outside seating. “Yes,” he wrote back. “If you ask them to show to the outdoor seating upstairs I can meet you there.” She wrote back: "Just waiting outside.”