Relationships

<h2>Knowing what you&#39;re looking for in a romantic relationship is one of the most difficult parts of navigating the swiping, scrolling, ghosting, blocking, and awkward coffee date journey toward a soulmate...</h2><p>So, when a <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/y1uacz/whats_a_dealbreaker_when_it_comes_to_dating/">Reddit</a> user asked, &quot;What&#39;s a dealbreaker when it comes to dating?&quot; people were ready to share the one behavior, habit, or relationship style that they&#39;re 100% unwilling to compromise on. Bad tippers? No thanks. Possible passive aggressive mother-in-law? Bye. An empty bottle of 2-in-1 shampoo and nothing else in the shower? Your number&#39;s getting blocked.</p><h2>1.</h2><blockquote> <p>Someone who doesn&#39;t believe in... anything. No passions, no interests, no stances on issues, just molding themselves to whatever they think I want to hear. That&#39;s a person who A. Will be codependent because they&#39;ve not developed a sense of self &amp; will rely on me for all mental stimulation. Or B. A person who&#39;s secretly got sh*tty views or toxic habits &amp; is concealing them to try &amp; get me invested. Hard pass. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/AllPerspicacity/">AllPerspicacity</a></p> </blockquote><h2>2.</h2><blockquote> <p>As a young woman that has dipped her toes into dating. A deal breaker for me is someone who has just come out of a long committed relationship and is out dating without giving themselves a proper healing stage. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/isaboooty/">isaboooty</a></p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>3.</h2><blockquote> <p>People with no hobbies. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/triple_hoop/">triple_hoop</a></p> </blockquote><h2>4.</h2><blockquote> <p>Trump supporters, conspiracy theorists, anti-science views. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/scatteredloops/">scatteredloops</a></p> </blockquote><h2>5.</h2><blockquote> <p>Unwilling to grow. Like we are supposed to grow and change as people like who wants to look back in 10years and think I didn&#39;t change at all I just got older... - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Supernaturalsprinkle/">Supernaturalsprinkle</a></p> </blockquote><h2>6.</h2><blockquote> <p>Taking photos/selfies before eating. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/PulakHasan/">PulakHasan</a></p> </blockquote><h2>7.</h2><blockquote> <p>Treating people in the service industry like crap. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/FrustratedKaijuFan/">FrustratedKaijuFan</a></p> </blockquote><h2>8.</h2><blockquote> <p>Bad table manners. I don&rsquo;t think I wanna try to change someone. If that&rsquo;s how your momma raised you I don&rsquo;t want any part of it - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/cheap_guitars/">cheap_guitars</a></p> </blockquote><h2>9.</h2><blockquote> <p>When a girl says: &quot;all my friends are guys&quot; just turn around and walk away. You don&#39;t need this bro trust me. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Ancient-Lingonberry4/">Ancient-Lingonberry4</a></p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>10.</h2><blockquote> <p>Smoking/vaping. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/just_minutes_ago/">just_minutes_ago</a></p> </blockquote><h2>11.</h2><blockquote> <p>Ex-boyfriend trash talking. Especially if it&#39;s multiple ex-boyfriends. I just know eventually I would likely be in that pool. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Solkos/">Solkos</a></p> </blockquote><h2>12.</h2><blockquote> <p>Horse girls. Having been in a relationship with one during my teens, never underestimate how much time she won&#39;t have left over for you. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Chippas/">Chippas</a></p> </blockquote><h2>13.</h2><blockquote> <p>As someone who doesn&#39;t want children, dating someone who does is a dealbreaker. Suffered a couple broken hearts over having to make this decision... - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/_JazminBianca/">_JazminBianca</a></p> </blockquote><h2>14.</h2><blockquote> <p>Having to constantly message and call because they want to be apart of your life every second. Even while working. Oh God. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/rnbwhtr/">rnbwhtr</a></p> </blockquote><h2>15.</h2><blockquote> <p>Head games. If you still want to do that in your 20&#39;s or 30&#39;s you are not mentally old enough to be with me. - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/boopnsnootshaha/">boopnsnootshaha</a></p> </blockquote><h2>16.</h2><blockquote> <p>They don&#39;t initiate ANYTHING such as dates or intimacy - <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Blackcore8/">Blackcore8</a></p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

16 people reveal the one dating dealbreaker that they could never accept.

Knowing what you&#39;re looking for in a romantic relationship is one of the most difficult parts of navigating the swiping, scrolling, ghosting, blocking, and awkward coffee date journey toward a soulmate...So, when a Reddit user asked, &quot;What&#39;s a dealbreaker when it comes to dating?&quot; people were ready to share the one behavior, habit, or relationship style that they&#39;re 100% unwilling to compromise on. Bad tippers? No thanks. Possible passive aggressive mother-in-law? Bye. An empty bottle of 2-in-1 shampoo and nothing else in the shower? Your number&#39;s getting blocked.1. Someone who doesn&#39;t believe in... anything. No passions, no interests, no stances on issues, just molding themselves to whatever they think I want to hear. That&#39;s a person who A. Will be codependent because they&#39;ve not developed a sense of self &amp; will rely on me for all mental stimulation. Or B. A person who&#39;s secretly got sh*tty views or toxic habits &amp; is concealing them to try &amp; get me invested. Hard pass. - AllPerspicacity 2. As a young woman that has dipped her toes into dating. A deal breaker for me is someone who has just come out of a long committed relationship and is out dating without giving themselves a proper healing stage. - isaboooty 3. People with no hobbies. - triple_hoop 4. Trump supporters, conspiracy theorists, anti-science views. - scatteredloops 5. Unwilling to grow. Like we are supposed to grow and change as people like who wants to look back in 10years and think I didn&#39;t change at all I just got older... - Supernaturalsprinkle 6. Taking photos/selfies before eating. - PulakHasan 7. Treating people in the service industry like crap. - FrustratedKaijuFan 8. Bad table manners. I don&rsquo;t think I wanna try to change someone. If that&rsquo;s how your momma raised you I don&rsquo;t want any part of it - cheap_guitars 9. When a girl says: &quot;all my friends are guys&quot; just turn around and walk away. You don&#39;t need this bro trust me. - Ancient-Lingonberry4 10. Smoking/vaping. - just_minutes_ago 11. Ex-boyfriend trash talking. Especially if it&#39;s multiple ex-boyfriends. I just know eventually I would likely be in that pool. - Solkos 12. Horse girls. Having been in a relationship with one during my teens, never underestimate how much time she won&#39;t have left over for you. - Chippas 13. As someone who doesn&#39;t want children, dating someone who does is a dealbreaker. Suffered a couple broken hearts over having to make this decision... - _JazminBianca 14. Having to constantly message and call because they want to be apart of your life every second. Even while working. Oh God. - rnbwhtr 15. Head games. If you still want to do that in your 20&#39;s or 30&#39;s you are not mentally old enough to be with me. - boopnsnootshaha 16. They don&#39;t initiate ANYTHING such as dates or intimacy - Blackcore8 

Knowing what you&#39;re looking for in a romantic relationship is one of the most difficult parts of navigating the swiping, scrolling, ghosting, blocking, and awkward coffee date journey toward a soulmate...  So, when a Reddit user asked,...