A frustrated wife came to Reddit for advice on a marital dispute that may be a cultural difference, or a classic case of A-holery.
I am Latina and he's from a country were people are more quiet. My husband been irritable lately, I asked him what was going on and he said that whenever I'm with my family and I get happy or excited I get very loud and the noise hurts his ears and it makes him irritable. Hence, why he gets rude.
I told him he was being unreasonable and he should suck it up, if he thinks the noise is too loud he should leave the room, but not tell me to keep it down when I'm with my family and friends.
I told him, it's cool if he gives me a signal to keep the volume lower when I'm with his friends and family but not when I'm with mine. My family and friends are the few spaces where I can safely and comfortably be my loud latina self.