When someone asks Reddit "Am I the Assh*ole," there's generally a quick consensus. In this case, a mom wanted to know if she was in the wrong for yelling at and insulting her spouse. That's generally grounds for a "yes, you are the assh*ole," but it's only one part of the story.
While out running errands, the husband refused to buy sanitary pads for her and her daughter.
"He just told me that buying sanitary products wasn’t his job and that there were so many options and he doesn’t know," she wrote — and the Reddit community instantly took her side, while some learned about a particular type of gaslighting relevant to the story as well. Here's her post in full:
AITA for telling my husband that he is useless at shopping?