Relationships

People, like onions, have layers. And sometimes exposing those layers can be a painful reality check. One minute you think your friend or lover or family member is a wonderful person; the next minute you find out they&#39;re a bad tipper with a fedora collection. Goodbye forever, Eric*!*Name has not been changed<h2>Someone <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/ejdlbw/whats_the_fastest_youve_ever_gone_from_caring/" target="_blank">asked</a> Reddit: &quot;What&#39;s the fastest you&#39;ve ever gone from caring about someone to straight up loathing them?&quot; These 22 people share stories of the times their feelings about a person changed faster than you can say &quot;wow, that is a LOT of fedoras, Eric!&quot;</h2>1.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/trampoline_tester23/" style="font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">trampoline_tester23</a>:<blockquote> One summer back in high school years, I had a crush on this girl and we&#39;d hang out when we weren&#39;t working together. A friend of mine would keep insisting that I should just ask her out. So I mustered my courage and asked her out. Yeah - it was a glorious fail. I still remember when she smiled and told me the truth. </blockquote><blockquote> That was when I found out that they had been secretly dating for a year and thought it would be a &quot;lark&quot; to just fuck with me. 100 to 0 in a few words and a vicious smile. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>2.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/AustralianLeprechaun/">AustralianLeprechaun</a>:<blockquote> When he convinced their wife to kick her young kids out because they were finally having a child together. He was very open about hating his step-kids. </blockquote>3.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/redditsavedmyagain/">redditsavedmyagain</a>:<blockquote> friend at a bar tells some people we just met how her mother died, later in the night i express my sympathy -- now she&#39;s without parents. she&#39;d told me hush-hush a few years prior about how father had passed. </blockquote><blockquote> &quot;wait did i tell you back then my dad died? i thought i told you it was my mum! no, both my parents are still alive; when we were in uni i just read in a book telling people a parent has died is an good way to get sympathy, ha ha!&quot; fucking sociopath </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>4.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Jazmer1/" style="font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">Jazmer1</a>:<blockquote> Talking to my then gf about her cheating on me. Explaining I couldn&#39;t ever possibly trust her again, and she replied &quot;But do you really need to trust me?&quot; Clearly had different ideas on what&#39;s required for a healthy relationship </blockquote>5.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Source_Points/">Source_Points</a>:<blockquote> Gave my roommate an envelope with a money order for bills in it, to drop in the mail. He got arrested. While looking for some of his documents to take to him I found the opened, empty envelope in his closet. Peace out. </blockquote>6.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Nail_Biterr/">Nail_Biterr</a>:<blockquote> My, at the time girlfriend, had a little sister. She was graduating from college, and her college was not close by. It was a few states away, and at least a 5hr drive. We both loved the sister, but we weren&#39;t going to make it to her graduation. We couldn&#39;t afford a hotel for the weekend, and we couldn&#39;t take off from work to get there on time. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> She FREAKED out on us. It was the biggest tantrum I&#39;ve seen an adult make. My GF and I both assumed it wasn&#39;t that big of a deal, but seeing how much her sister freaked out, we re-evaluated the situation. </blockquote><blockquote> So, we packed up quickly, and drove through the night to get there. She told us we could sleep in her apartment that night, but that we&#39;d need to get a hotel the following night. That was fine, we found something online for like $100/night. </blockquote><blockquote> We got to her place in record time. It was not even midnight. We felt like heroes for making up so quickly. We get to her apartment - and she won&#39;t let us in. She says she&#39;s already in bed, and we should have gotten there earlier if we wanted to take her up on her offer. </blockquote><blockquote> So, we&#39;re both exhausted, and we have nowhere to stay. I wanted to just turn around and go back home, but my GF was a better person than me. Luckily we had other friends in the city, and one was nice enough to give us their couches for the night. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> It&#39;s been like 15 years, and I assume the sister was getting one last lay with a college hook-up, because I could not imagine any other scenario where she couldn&#39;t simply walk down 2 flights of stairs to open the door for us. </blockquote><blockquote> I ended up marrying the GF, and still bring up this situation anytime she gets in a fight with her sister. It&#39;s usually &#39;I can&#39;t believe how selfish my sister is being.&#39; and I go &#39;you can&#39;t!? remember that time we drove to her college gra...&#39; and she cuts me off. of course she also remembers it. </blockquote>7.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/ForestRoos/">ForestRoos</a>:<blockquote> When my best friend of 10 years slept with my boyfriend of 2 years. I was so crushed but to be honest was more angry with the friend. I truly did believe that I was deeply in love with the boyfriend but he was kind of a shit head to begin with....I saw my friend as a sister and her betrayal left longer lasting impact and hurt way more. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> I hated her in a violent way for a very long time...fast forward 11 years and now I am to a point where I have forgiven her and wish her well but would never let her back into my life again. </blockquote>8.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Swinella/">Swinella</a>:<blockquote> When he became angry with me about something trivial (agreed to disagree instead of conceding to him) and then he proceeded to tell me he should beat the shit out of me because of it. Yeah, no. Done. </blockquote>9.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/AgreeableSeries/" style="font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">AgreeableSeries</a>:<blockquote> Partner of 3 years broke up with me via text while I was at work... I lost my job by leaving work immediately to go home (a complete wreck) to discover he had given his friends a months notice so they all helped him move, and I was literally the last one to know. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> When he left suddenly like this, he had in his account the money I had raised for charity by shaving my head because of my father&#39;s terminal illness. Went from upset to level 1,000 rage as soon as I realised this. </blockquote>10.) ​​​​​​From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/ChefSandman/">ChefSandman</a>:<blockquote> Was at my wife&#39;s family Christmas gift exchange. My wife is estranged from her direct family, so this was all of the uncles, aunties and cousins. There were multiple nieces and nephews running around having a good time. We all agreed to a white elephant exchange for the adults so we didn&#39;t have to buy a lot of gifts, we did that the night before and did the gifts for the kids in there morning. </blockquote><blockquote> Morning rolls around and all the kids are opening gifts... except my son. None of those entitled ass hats got him anything. He sat there and watched everyone else open multiple gifts and it broke my heart to see him sitting there with nothing. Fuck those people right up their stupid assholes. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>11.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Gabba737/">Gabba737</a>:<blockquote> When he started being condescending to me in almost every conversation we have, in about almost every topic we talked about, then him complaining to me that some people can&rsquo;t handle him having such strong opinions on topics he&rsquo;s &ldquo;passionate about&rdquo;. </blockquote>12.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/AustralianLeprechaun/" style="font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">AustralianLeprechaun</a>:<blockquote> When he convinced their wife to kick her young kids out because they were finally having a child together. He was very open about hating his step-kids. </blockquote>13.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/phunkydroid/">phunkydroid</a>:<blockquote> Found out this girl I was getting close to had been lying about her ex being a deadbeat dad and well, her ex. He wasn&#39;t just still in the picture, they lived together. I should have guessed after the third or fourth time she made an excuse to not go to her place. Never ended something so quick. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>14.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/igetb0red/" style="font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">igetb0red</a>:<blockquote> A former friend bailed on me when we were supposed to hang out and so I called my then girlfriend to see what she was doing and I could hear him talking to her parents in the background... </blockquote> 15.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/cdxxlxixdclxvi/" style="font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">cdxxlxixdclxvi</a>:<blockquote> My childhood friend he lived pretty close to me and seemed like a nice dude until he stole my GoldenEye and moved to Minnesota. Fuck you Derrick! </blockquote>16.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Coogles/" style="font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">Coogles</a>:<blockquote> When my grandfather screamed at my mother that she had ruined his life by being born. Never spoke to him again after that. </blockquote>17.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Snow776/">Snow776</a>:<blockquote> When i was younger I found out one of my childhood friends was stealing from me and the friendship group. Every so often we would &#39;lose&#39; a phone or Ipod then said friend would have conveniently got the same model but beat it up a bit with his initials in tipex or something stupid. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> Being a good friend we didnt want to believe it but we started putting distinct markings on our items. Low and behold my phone goes missing and he turns up with the same one a few weeks later with the markings. We brought him up on it but he just lost his temper and stormed off. 15 years later hes in prison for armed robbery.... </blockquote>18.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/tatychann/">tatychann</a>:<blockquote> I loved (still love) playing Pok&eacute;mon and I had no female friends with the same interest. Found out about this group of guys that played it after school. Got really excited and made plans with them. I waited for hours and they never showed up... next day I overhear my best childhood friend laughing about how annoying I was and that they had to hide from me to play in peace. That really hurt </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>19.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Navaro27/">Navaro27</a>:<blockquote> My ex girlfriend. We were childhood sweethearts. Dated from 17 to 25. Found out she was cheating on me with her boss, who was more than twice our age. Then proceeded to find out there was many more occurrences and she was a very different person than the person I&#39;d been dating. Shattered. </blockquote>20.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/GenJonesMom/">GenJonesMom</a>:<blockquote> As fast as it took for his wife to call me at work to tell me that he was not only married, but had three children including a newborn. </blockquote>21.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/RicyHub/" style="font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">RicyHub</a>:<blockquote> My best friend back in school got a F from the teacher. Me and him asked if we can go to the toilet. I go to the toilet to text a bit with friends from other school, he goes to the parking lot and scratches the teachers car. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> School break and the teacher finds his car, we both get called to the director etc etc. Friend said that we both scratched the car. &Iacute; showed the teacher my phone to show him I was texting and couldnt have scratches his car, told friend to fuck off and went out. </blockquote>22.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/portlandninja/">portlandninja</a>: <blockquote> in the blink of an eye. i thought i was in love and then witnessed the asshole kick a dog. hard. see ya. </blockquote>Trust. No one.<div className="ad-splitter"></div>

22 people share the moment they started really hating someone close.

People, like onions, have layers. And sometimes exposing those layers can be a painful reality check. One minute you think your friend or lover or family member is a wonderful person; the next minute you find out they&#39;re a bad tipper with a fedora collection. Goodbye forever, Eric*!*Name has not been changedSomeone asked Reddit: &quot;What&#39;s the fastest you&#39;ve ever gone from caring about someone to straight up loathing them?&quot; These 22 people share stories of the times their feelings about a person changed faster than you can say &quot;wow, that is a LOT of fedoras, Eric!&quot;1.) From trampoline_tester23: One summer back in high school years, I had a crush on this girl and we&#39;d hang out when we weren&#39;t working together. A friend of mine would keep insisting that I should just ask her out. So I mustered my courage and asked her out. Yeah - it was a glorious fail. I still remember when she smiled and told me the truth.  That was when I found out that they had been secretly dating for a year and thought it would be a &quot;lark&quot; to just fuck with me. 100 to 0 in a few words and a vicious smile. 2.) From AustralianLeprechaun: When he convinced their wife to kick her young kids out because they were finally having a child together. He was very open about hating his step-kids. 3.) From redditsavedmyagain: friend at a bar tells some people we just met how her mother died, later in the night i express my sympathy -- now she&#39;s without parents. she&#39;d told me hush-hush a few years prior about how father had passed.  &quot;wait did i tell you back then my dad died? i thought i told you it was my mum! no, both my parents are still alive; when we were in uni i just read in a book telling people a parent has died is an good way to get sympathy, ha ha!&quot; fucking sociopath 4.) From Jazmer1: Talking to my then gf about her cheating on me. Explaining I couldn&#39;t ever possibly trust her again, and she replied &quot;But do you really need to trust me?&quot; Clearly had different ideas on what&#39;s required for a healthy relationship 5.) From Source_Points: Gave my roommate an envelope with a money order for bills in it, to drop in the mail. He got arrested. While looking for some of his documents to take to him I found the opened, empty envelope in his closet. Peace out. 6.) From Nail_Biterr: My, at the time girlfriend, had a little sister. She was graduating from college, and her college was not close by. It was a few states away, and at least a 5hr drive. We both loved the sister, but we weren&#39;t going to make it to her graduation. We couldn&#39;t afford a hotel for the weekend, and we couldn&#39;t take off from work to get there on time.  She FREAKED out on us. It was the biggest tantrum I&#39;ve seen an adult make. My GF and I both assumed it wasn&#39;t that big of a deal, but seeing how much her sister freaked out, we re-evaluated the situation.  So, we packed up quickly, and drove through the night to get there. She told us we could sleep in her apartment that night, but that we&#39;d need to get a hotel the following night. That was fine, we found something online for like $100/night.  We got to her place in record time. It was not even midnight. We felt like heroes for making up so quickly. We get to her apartment - and she won&#39;t let us in. She says she&#39;s already in bed, and we should have gotten there earlier if we wanted to take her up on her offer.  So, we&#39;re both exhausted, and we have nowhere to stay. I wanted to just turn around and go back home, but my GF was a better person than me. Luckily we had other friends in the city, and one was nice enough to give us their couches for the night.  It&#39;s been like 15 years, and I assume the sister was getting one last lay with a college hook-up, because I could not imagine any other scenario where she couldn&#39;t simply walk down 2 flights of stairs to open the door for us.  I ended up marrying the GF, and still bring up this situation anytime she gets in a fight with her sister. It&#39;s usually &#39;I can&#39;t believe how selfish my sister is being.&#39; and I go &#39;you can&#39;t!? remember that time we drove to her college gra...&#39; and she cuts me off. of course she also remembers it. 7.) From ForestRoos: When my best friend of 10 years slept with my boyfriend of 2 years. I was so crushed but to be honest was more angry with the friend. I truly did believe that I was deeply in love with the boyfriend but he was kind of a shit head to begin with....I saw my friend as a sister and her betrayal left longer lasting impact and hurt way more.  I hated her in a violent way for a very long time...fast forward 11 years and now I am to a point where I have forgiven her and wish her well but would never let her back into my life again. 8.) From Swinella: When he became angry with me about something trivial (agreed to disagree instead of conceding to him) and then he proceeded to tell me he should beat the shit out of me because of it. Yeah, no. Done. 9.) From AgreeableSeries: Partner of 3 years broke up with me via text while I was at work... I lost my job by leaving work immediately to go home (a complete wreck) to discover he had given his friends a months notice so they all helped him move, and I was literally the last one to know.  When he left suddenly like this, he had in his account the money I had raised for charity by shaving my head because of my father&#39;s terminal illness. Went from upset to level 1,000 rage as soon as I realised this. 10.) ​​​​​​From ChefSandman: Was at my wife&#39;s family Christmas gift exchange. My wife is estranged from her direct family, so this was all of the uncles, aunties and cousins. There were multiple nieces and nephews running around having a good time. We all agreed to a white elephant exchange for the adults so we didn&#39;t have to buy a lot of gifts, we did that the night before and did the gifts for the kids in there morning.  Morning rolls around and all the kids are opening gifts... except my son. None of those entitled ass hats got him anything. He sat there and watched everyone else open multiple gifts and it broke my heart to see him sitting there with nothing. Fuck those people right up their stupid assholes. 11.) From Gabba737: When he started being condescending to me in almost every conversation we have, in about almost every topic we talked about, then him complaining to me that some people can&rsquo;t handle him having such strong opinions on topics he&rsquo;s &ldquo;passionate about&rdquo;. 12.) From AustralianLeprechaun: When he convinced their wife to kick her young kids out because they were finally having a child together. He was very open about hating his step-kids. 13.) From phunkydroid: Found out this girl I was getting close to had been lying about her ex being a deadbeat dad and well, her ex. He wasn&#39;t just still in the picture, they lived together. I should have guessed after the third or fourth time she made an excuse to not go to her place. Never ended something so quick. 14.) From igetb0red: A former friend bailed on me when we were supposed to hang out and so I called my then girlfriend to see what she was doing and I could hear him talking to her parents in the background...  15.) From cdxxlxixdclxvi: My childhood friend he lived pretty close to me and seemed like a nice dude until he stole my GoldenEye and moved to Minnesota. Fuck you Derrick! 16.) From Coogles: When my grandfather screamed at my mother that she had ruined his life by being born. Never spoke to him again after that. 17.) From Snow776: When i was younger I found out one of my childhood friends was stealing from me and the friendship group. Every so often we would &#39;lose&#39; a phone or Ipod then said friend would have conveniently got the same model but beat it up a bit with his initials in tipex or something stupid.  Being a good friend we didnt want to believe it but we started putting distinct markings on our items. Low and behold my phone goes missing and he turns up with the same one a few weeks later with the markings. We brought him up on it but he just lost his temper and stormed off. 15 years later hes in prison for armed robbery.... 18.) From tatychann: I loved (still love) playing Pok&eacute;mon and I had no female friends with the same interest. Found out about this group of guys that played it after school. Got really excited and made plans with them. I waited for hours and they never showed up... next day I overhear my best childhood friend laughing about how annoying I was and that they had to hide from me to play in peace. That really hurt 19.) From Navaro27: My ex girlfriend. We were childhood sweethearts. Dated from 17 to 25. Found out she was cheating on me with her boss, who was more than twice our age. Then proceeded to find out there was many more occurrences and she was a very different person than the person I&#39;d been dating. Shattered. 20.) From GenJonesMom: As fast as it took for his wife to call me at work to tell me that he was not only married, but had three children including a newborn. 21.) From RicyHub: My best friend back in school got a F from the teacher. Me and him asked if we can go to the toilet. I go to the toilet to text a bit with friends from other school, he goes to the parking lot and scratches the teachers car.  School break and the teacher finds his car, we both get called to the director etc etc. Friend said that we both scratched the car. &Iacute; showed the teacher my phone to show him I was texting and couldnt have scratches his car, told friend to fuck off and went out. 22.) From portlandninja:  in the blink of an eye. i thought i was in love and then witnessed the asshole kick a dog. hard. see ya. Trust. No one.

People, like onions, have layers. And sometimes exposing those layers can be a painful reality check. One minute you think your friend or lover or family member is a wonderful person; the next minute you find out they&#39;re a bad tipper...