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<h2>&#39;AITA for letting him and his guy friend be stranded in another city and refusing to pay for their plane tickets to get home?&#39;</h2><blockquote> <p>\My fiance (33/M) has a guy best friend that he&#39;s known for 16 years!. He&#39;s cancer and is terminal. My fiance wanted to take him on a vacation for a couple of days and begged me to basically fund it. I refused although I felt incredibly guilty after he made me feel bad about it for days!</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Eventually, he was able to borrow money to go on the vacation. They went and spent 2 days at a sports city. When it was time to return, he called me asking me to pay for their plane tickets to get home. I was taken aback I asked why I should pay and he said because they ran out of money and didn&#39;t put any aside to get home.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I refused and told him it wasn&#39;t my problem he didn&#39;t save money for the return flight. He started arguing with me saying I can&#39;t let them be stranded in another city when I have the means to help, especially after I refused to help fund the vacation.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>I said no and that he needed to deal with it on his own. He didn&#39;t stop texting me trying to get me to pay. He and his friend had to eventually return by road and it took them 8+ hrs.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>He came home and blew up saying I let them be stranded in another city and refused to help although I had money to pay for their plane tickets. He said that by &#39;forcing&#39; them to travel by road, I had caused his friend unnecessary exhaustion and turmoil. He called me every name under the sun and said I had no empathy for his friend and that I&#39;d tainted the memories of this vacation.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>AITA? He&#39;s still mad at me and says he&#39;s in shock by the way I behaved in this situation and lack of empathy I&#39;d displayed.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I need to mention something as a number of people have been asking about it. My fiance is unemployed that&#39;s why he could not afford the vacation although it wasn&#39;t expensive. I&#39;m the one working. Money is tight and yes, paying for the ticket would have strapped me financially since I&#39;m paying for everything.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Comments:</p><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Ranos131/" target="_blank">Ranos131</a> asks:</p><blockquote> <p>Why didn&rsquo;t he book round trip tickets? They are cheaper than two one way tickets.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Thorns_Roses3243/" target="_blank">Thorns_Roses3243</a> OP says:</p><blockquote> <p>I don&#39;t know why. He doesn&#39;t take my input into consideration especially when he&#39;s so determined on getting something done. If he wants it done it&#39;s done, his stubbornness had gotten us into a fair amount of trouble I tell you that much! I always tell him &#39;something oughtta be changed here&#39; but he&#39;d turn it back on me and say that I&#39;m the problem.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/MrDarcysDead/" target="_blank">MrDarcysDead</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>You can&#39;t seriously still be planning to marry this guy.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/TruthfulBoy/" target="_blank">TruthfulBoy</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>Ikr like for f**k sakes how does this con artist seem like marriage material 😭</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Beth21286/" target="_blank">Beth21286</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>OP seems to be very aware of his faults from the comments so they must be head over heels to not see how much better they deserve.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/cbreezy456/" target="_blank">cbreezy456</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>Or lack of self-respect/ afraid of being alone.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Murokin/" target="_blank">Murokin</a> says&#39;</p><blockquote> <p>Girl, LEAVE! He&#39;s trying to manipulate you and gaslight you into submitting to his every desire.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Glass_Machine_9886/" target="_blank">Glass_Machine_9886</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>NTA. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life being at minimum emotionally abused by this man?</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman asks if she was wrong to leave fiancé and his terminally ill friend stranded.

&#39;AITA for letting him and his guy friend be stranded in another city and refusing to pay for their plane tickets to get home?&#39; \My fiance (33/M) has a guy best friend that he&#39;s known for 16 years!. He&#39;s cancer and is terminal. My fiance wanted to take him on a vacation for a couple of days and begged me to basically fund it. I refused although I felt incredibly guilty after he made me feel bad about it for days!  Eventually, he was able to borrow money to go on the vacation. They went and spent 2 days at a sports city. When it was time to return, he called me asking me to pay for their plane tickets to get home. I was taken aback I asked why I should pay and he said because they ran out of money and didn&#39;t put any aside to get home.  I refused and told him it wasn&#39;t my problem he didn&#39;t save money for the return flight. He started arguing with me saying I can&#39;t let them be stranded in another city when I have the means to help, especially after I refused to help fund the vacation.  I said no and that he needed to deal with it on his own. He didn&#39;t stop texting me trying to get me to pay. He and his friend had to eventually return by road and it took them 8+ hrs.  He came home and blew up saying I let them be stranded in another city and refused to help although I had money to pay for their plane tickets. He said that by &#39;forcing&#39; them to travel by road, I had caused his friend unnecessary exhaustion and turmoil. He called me every name under the sun and said I had no empathy for his friend and that I&#39;d tainted the memories of this vacation.  AITA? He&#39;s still mad at me and says he&#39;s in shock by the way I behaved in this situation and lack of empathy I&#39;d displayed.  I need to mention something as a number of people have been asking about it. My fiance is unemployed that&#39;s why he could not afford the vacation although it wasn&#39;t expensive. I&#39;m the one working. Money is tight and yes, paying for the ticket would have strapped me financially since I&#39;m paying for everything. Comments:Ranos131 asks: Why didn&rsquo;t he book round trip tickets? They are cheaper than two one way tickets. Thorns_Roses3243 OP says: I don&#39;t know why. He doesn&#39;t take my input into consideration especially when he&#39;s so determined on getting something done. If he wants it done it&#39;s done, his stubbornness had gotten us into a fair amount of trouble I tell you that much! I always tell him &#39;something oughtta be changed here&#39; but he&#39;d turn it back on me and say that I&#39;m the problem. MrDarcysDead says: You can&#39;t seriously still be planning to marry this guy. TruthfulBoy says: Ikr like for f**k sakes how does this con artist seem like marriage material 😭 Beth21286 says: OP seems to be very aware of his faults from the comments so they must be head over heels to not see how much better they deserve. cbreezy456 says: Or lack of self-respect/ afraid of being alone. Murokin says&#39; Girl, LEAVE! He&#39;s trying to manipulate you and gaslight you into submitting to his every desire. Glass_Machine_9886 says: NTA. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life being at minimum emotionally abused by this man? 

&#39;AITA for letting him and his guy friend be stranded in another city and refusing to pay for their plane tickets to get home?&#39;   \My fiance (33/M) has a guy best friend that he&#39;s known for 16 years!. He&#39;s cancer and is...