So, when a conflicted future doctor decided to consult the moral compass of the internet otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole" about refusing to donate to their friend's wedding fund, people were eager to deem a verdict.
I have a close friend from college who's getting married next year, and she's been asking for my help to contribute to her wedding. I think it's sweet that she's thinking of me, but I don't think it's a good idea for me to help out financially.
My friend and I have been close for a few years now, and I'm happy for her. She is struggling financially, and they have asked that instead of wedding gifts, people can donate to parts of their wedding ceremony (there's a registry and everything, like “table flowers” and stuff).