What happens, though, when you decide to have a strict adults-only wedding, know that some guests will RSVP "no," but then flip out when four parents have to skip your special day? So, when a frustrated bride decided to consult the moral compass of the internet otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole" about her 'no kids' RSVP dilemma, people were eager to help deem a verdict.
I was supposed to get married last year but it had to be cancelled and we moved it to this year. I'm getting married in a month and I couldn't be happier. I have a no-kids wedding and I had notified everyone that it's a no-kids wedding so they could tell me whether they'll be able to attend or not.
I said it's fine if you can't find a babysitter for the day and I won't judge if you can't afford to have a sitter or you can't find one and you won't be able to attend, I just said I'd like to be notified at least two weeks prior to the wedding because that's when I'm gonna give the list of the guests to the venue.