Of course everyone wants to cut weddings costs down in whatever ways they can, but there are many ways to keep it classy while sticking to a strict budget. The best thing to avoid? Let's start with replacing recently deceased relatives in the most obvious ways possible. So, when a frustrated wedding guest needed to vent to the gloriously petty and spiteful group, "Wedding Shaming," about her mysterious and sudden plus-one, people were eager to pile on and join the dragging session.
On Valentine's day this year I married the love of my life. He has been around for years, has attended family events, and was a huge help taking care of my terminally ill father.
About this time, I received a save the date to my cousin's fall wedding. I say "I" because it was addressed to me and me alone, no plus one option and no mention of my husband.