Weddings

<h2>Imagine on your wedding day, the love of your life looks deep into your eyes and surprises you by singing a song that has a special meaning to the two of you. Now imagine you&#39;re pissed off.</h2><p>If that scenario doesn&#39;t make any sense to you, you now know how Reddit user <a data-click-id="user" data-testid="post_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Aintnosunshinehear/">u/Aintnosunshinehear</a> feels. He serenaded his bride with a beautiful song that everyone loved... except the bride. </p><h2>Now, he&#39;s asking the internet, &quot;<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vitvd4/aita_for_singing_a_song_to_my_wife_at_our_wedding/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">AITA</a> (Am I the As*hole) for singing a song to my wife at our wedding and making her angry?&quot;</h2><p>He writes:</p><blockquote> <p>I just got married last week (my wife and I are both in our thirties). I am Mexican, and she is American, but we both grew up in the US and both our families know both languages.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>My wife planned every bit of the wedding and was a very controlling and nervous bride, but alright, I get that she was stressed.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>During the reception, I went to the band and asked them to play a song for me to sing to my new wife. It was &quot;Te Amare&quot; by Miguel Bose. It was the song from out first date in a really bad Mexican restaurant, so it became a long-standing joke between us.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>The guests really loved the song, my MIL cried and told me it was beautiful, but my bride seemed upset. I asked her what was wrong and she said I am an AH for taking the spotlight to enforce my ethnicity and not just let the band sing our song for us. AITA?</p> </blockquote><h2>Wow. Was the theme of this wedding, &quot;Red Flags?&quot; Sounds like this woman was a Bridezilla from the start. She was controlling (code word for psycho) during the wedding planning and her attitude at the reception was beyond.</h2><p>Most women would swoon to be serenaded by their love. It&#39;s a shame that such a sweet gesture was taken soon poorly. She brought up his ethnicity, but I think it really came down to the fact that Bridezilla didn&#39;t like the groom taking the spotlight away from her for even a minute</p><p>. Apparently, she didn&#39;t get the memo that the wedding was the groom&#39;s day too. He chose that song in particular because of an inside joke and cherished memory between them, but he should have chosen a more fitting song like, &quot;Bye Bye Bye.&quot; </p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Redditors agree this singing groom definitely deserves better. He is &quot;Not The As*hole,&quot; but he might be single soon.</h2><h2><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/UnlikelyPlatypus9159/">UnlikelyPlatypus9159</a></h2><blockquote> <p>NTA, what a weird way to view what happened.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Decent_Ad6389/">Decent_Ad6389</a></p><blockquote> <p>Agreed. Her accusation is bizarre. I&#39;m not sure what &quot;enforce your ethnicity&quot; actually entails. I suppose she&#39;s implying that he&#39;s swinging around his heritage like some kind of weapon. NTA</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/cnicalsinistaminista/">cnicalsinistaminista</a></p><blockquote> <p>The overrall undertone is kinda mystifying? I know a lot of women would &quot;awwww&quot; and blush deep pink being sang to at their wedding. Congratulations, OP... I guess. And good luck, looks like you&#39;re gonna need it. NTA.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Primrose52/">Primrose52</a></p><blockquote> <p>She was &quot;very controlling and nervous&quot; while she planned the wedding with him not having a say. My guess is she was/is a bridezilla and it was not on her agenda. Good luck OP.. you need it. OP NTA</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Blonde-Engineer-3/">Blonde-Engineer-3</a></p><blockquote> <p>NTA. it&rsquo;s your day too you know. She should have just appreciated the moment and sentiment and found it funny and charming that you remembered</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Odd-ball_Otter/">Odd-ball_Otter</a></p><blockquote> <p>NTA. It sounds like a very sweet and meaningful gesture, and your newly married bride should have been over the moon about it. You are definitely NTA.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/HoldFastO2/">HoldFastO2</a></p><blockquote> <p>NTA. And this is a very weird (and concerning) mentality to have - &quot;enforce your ethnicity&quot;? What the hell?</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>The wedding is both her <em>and your</em> day, so you get to fill it out, as well. Trying to basically minimalize your impact on your own wedding day is a special piece of Bridezilla hell.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Saggy_Slumberchops/">Saggy_Slumberchops</a></p><blockquote> <p>Total NTA. I believe this upset the bride simply because she thinks this will be the highlight of the wedding that everyone will remember and that she was not involved. As he sang I&#39;m sure she was filled with rage viewing all the reactions from family and friends while she put on a fake smile.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Groom asks if he was wrong to 'steal the spotlight' by serenading bride at wedding.

Imagine on your wedding day, the love of your life looks deep into your eyes and surprises you by singing a song that has a special meaning to the two of you. Now imagine you&#39;re pissed off.If that scenario doesn&#39;t make any sense to you, you now know how Reddit user u/Aintnosunshinehear feels. He serenaded his bride with a beautiful song that everyone loved... except the bride. Now, he&#39;s asking the internet, &quot;AITA (Am I the As*hole) for singing a song to my wife at our wedding and making her angry?&quot;He writes: I just got married last week (my wife and I are both in our thirties). I am Mexican, and she is American, but we both grew up in the US and both our families know both languages.  My wife planned every bit of the wedding and was a very controlling and nervous bride, but alright, I get that she was stressed.  During the reception, I went to the band and asked them to play a song for me to sing to my new wife. It was &quot;Te Amare&quot; by Miguel Bose. It was the song from out first date in a really bad Mexican restaurant, so it became a long-standing joke between us.  The guests really loved the song, my MIL cried and told me it was beautiful, but my bride seemed upset. I asked her what was wrong and she said I am an AH for taking the spotlight to enforce my ethnicity and not just let the band sing our song for us. AITA? Wow. Was the theme of this wedding, &quot;Red Flags?&quot; Sounds like this woman was a Bridezilla from the start. She was controlling (code word for psycho) during the wedding planning and her attitude at the reception was beyond.Most women would swoon to be serenaded by their love. It&#39;s a shame that such a sweet gesture was taken soon poorly. She brought up his ethnicity, but I think it really came down to the fact that Bridezilla didn&#39;t like the groom taking the spotlight away from her for even a minute. Apparently, she didn&#39;t get the memo that the wedding was the groom&#39;s day too. He chose that song in particular because of an inside joke and cherished memory between them, but he should have chosen a more fitting song like, &quot;Bye Bye Bye.&quot; Redditors agree this singing groom definitely deserves better. He is &quot;Not The As*hole,&quot; but he might be single soon.UnlikelyPlatypus9159 NTA, what a weird way to view what happened. Decent_Ad6389 Agreed. Her accusation is bizarre. I&#39;m not sure what &quot;enforce your ethnicity&quot; actually entails. I suppose she&#39;s implying that he&#39;s swinging around his heritage like some kind of weapon. NTA cnicalsinistaminista The overrall undertone is kinda mystifying? I know a lot of women would &quot;awwww&quot; and blush deep pink being sang to at their wedding. Congratulations, OP... I guess. And good luck, looks like you&#39;re gonna need it. NTA. Primrose52 She was &quot;very controlling and nervous&quot; while she planned the wedding with him not having a say. My guess is she was/is a bridezilla and it was not on her agenda. Good luck OP.. you need it. OP NTA  Blonde-Engineer-3 NTA. it&rsquo;s your day too you know. She should have just appreciated the moment and sentiment and found it funny and charming that you remembered Odd-ball_Otter NTA. It sounds like a very sweet and meaningful gesture, and your newly married bride should have been over the moon about it. You are definitely NTA. HoldFastO2 NTA. And this is a very weird (and concerning) mentality to have - &quot;enforce your ethnicity&quot;? What the hell?  The wedding is both her and your day, so you get to fill it out, as well. Trying to basically minimalize your impact on your own wedding day is a special piece of Bridezilla hell. Saggy_Slumberchops Total NTA. I believe this upset the bride simply because she thinks this will be the highlight of the wedding that everyone will remember and that she was not involved. As he sang I&#39;m sure she was filled with rage viewing all the reactions from family and friends while she put on a fake smile. 

Imagine on your wedding day, the love of your life looks deep into your eyes and surprises you by singing a song that has a special meaning to the two of you. Now imagine you&#39;re pissed off.  If that scenario doesn&#39;t make any sense...

Groom asks if he was wrong to 'steal the spotlight' by serenading bride at wedding.

Imagine on your wedding day, the love of your life looks deep into your eyes and surprises you by singing a song that has a special meaning to the two of you. Now imagine you're pissed off.

Now, he's asking the internet, "AITA (Am I the As*hole) for singing a song to my wife at our wedding and making her angry?"