My fiancee (29f) and I (34m) are getting married in two weeks after 13 years of friendship, and four years of dating. She's fantastic and our relationship has been so good for the both of us. Planning the wedding has been uncomplicated and fun. We included my mother a lot, for example, my fiancee took her dress shopping.
My fiancee has always had a good relationship with my parents, and it grew much closer over the past year, after her mother died. They kind of see her as another child and I know that my fiancee appreciates that immensely. As for my fiancee's father, she went NC with him when she was 15.
Even before that he hadn't played an important role in her life. His behavior was one cause in her having depression and low self-esteem, it took her years to heal. She's happy with the way things are now. I never met the man, so neither of us considered inviting him to the wedding.