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<p>Sadly, there often comes a time in a relationship when the person you were once wildly attracted to suddenly becomes repulsive. That feeling of no longer wanting to share a kiss, or a bed, or even a planet, with someone you used to find attractive is called &quot;the ick.&quot; And it can happen for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes it&#39;s not the person&#39;s fault. But more often than not, let&#39;s be honest, &quot;the ick&quot; doesn&#39;t just come from nowhere.</p><p>In a popular Reddit thread, someone <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/on37yo/what_was_something_your_ex_did_that_gave_you_the/" target="_blank">asked</a> women: &quot;What was something your ex did that gave you the ick?&quot;</p><h2>These 17 women share stories of weird, disturbing, or downright horrifying behavior that killed their attraction to an ex:</h2><p>1.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/momof2boys87/">momof2boys87</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>Bought me the same perfume his sister wore because it &quot;turned him on.&quot;</p> </blockquote><p>2.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/iusedtobefamous1892/">iusedtobefamous1892</a>:</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>He got his mum to cut his toenails for him. He did not have a medical condition or anything that would prevent him from being able to do that himself. This was not a one off thing, he never cut his toenails. His mum always did it for him.</p> </blockquote><p>3.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Uncreativeusername10/">Uncreativeusername10</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>My last ex accompanied me to my best friend&rsquo;s birthday celebration with her boyfriend. We payed for a nice hotel room for the night to drink and later explore the hotel (it was a haunted hotel, fun). My ex got the most drunk out of all of us&hellip; and it was a sight. I had never seen him drunk before. Ever. I&rsquo;ve never been so annoyed by someone my entire life. He was trying to force my best friend and I to drink more and more and would call us &ldquo;not fun&rdquo; or &ldquo;boring&rdquo; when we reached our limit and said no.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>Eventually when it was time for us to go explore the hotel he refused to let me go with my friends and he made them go without me. Then after they left he waddled out of the bathroom with his pants around his ankles&hellip;literally walking like a toddler&hellip; it was the biggest turn off in my entire life.</p> </blockquote><p>4.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Psithuristic_flatus/">Psithuristic_flatus</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>Voted for Trump</p> </blockquote><p>5.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Vivalapetitemort/">Vivalapetitemort</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>He kissed without putting his lips on mine. He would open his month really wide and be above and below my lips and then just stick his tongue out straight like a hot dog. It was weird. After a make out session my face was sloppy with spit. Not exaggerating, it was gross.</p> <p>He was hands down the worst kisser, but otherwise a great guy.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>6.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/44_Sunflower_44/">44_Sunflower_44</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>When he would be flossing his teeth, he would pull the floss out, and then put the floss back in his mouth and eat whatever come out from between his teeth. Omg. I can&rsquo;t 🤮</p> </blockquote><p>7.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/forponderings/">forponderings</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>He introduced me to Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood, which I never got a chance to watch as a teenager. It was a rewatch for him, but a thrilling first experience for me. Well, he talked SO MUCH during the episodes he consistently spoiled minor plot points. He did keep the big surprises a surprise, but MY GOD. I have never had a worse movie watching company, and I doubt I ever will.<button aria-label="upvote" aria-pressed="false" data-click-id="upvote"></button></p> </blockquote><p>8.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Bris50/">Bris50</a>:</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>A piece of my pubic hair fell out during sex, just like hair shedding while brushing. He saved the piece of hair and kept it on his coffee table.</p> </blockquote><p>9.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/potatoes-and-rice/">potatoes-and-rice</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>He would tell me all about his imaginary girlfriend, a badass blonde Viking chick named Nova. So then there I was, the mixed race Asian, questioning why I was with this daydreamer. 🤦🏻&zwj;♀️</p> </blockquote><p>10.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/fuibaba/">fuibaba</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>Went with him and his parents to a department store. They were really excited to buy him a work wardrobe as he had graduated and found a job that required smart trousers/shirts. When we got there he sulked with his hands in his pockets because &ldquo;shopping is boring&rdquo;. I pulled him aside, asked him what the hell did he think he was playing at and told him to be grateful. The whole thing disgusted me. Told him to apologise to his parents and later his mum told me I didn&rsquo;t have to have done that. My brain imploded realising that they enabled his behaviour and didn&rsquo;t seem to mind him being rude and ungrateful.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>11.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/sweetdmj/">sweetdmj</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>At his birthday dinner we had with his parents, unbeknownst to me he took a couple of oxycodons before drinking a few whiskeys. At one point he stood up and then passed out. His parents called an ambulance, when he came to he blamed me for his taking the pills and drinking.</p> </blockquote><p>12.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Picky_vicky/">Picky_vicky</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>Say he didn&#39;t believe in feminism, just in equality. I&#39;m-</p> </blockquote><p>13.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/seehare/">seehare</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>A really big ick is when I see them get easily angered and flip out. Even in public. I would get SO embarrassed to be around them. It was like I&rsquo;m babysitting a kid!</p> </blockquote><p>14.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Serenity265432/">Serenity265432</a>:</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>He would lean me backwards when we hugged so that I had to either cling to him or fall over - it hurt my back and made me feel like I wasn&#39;t in control, but he would just laugh. Wouldn&#39;t stop regardless of how many times I asked. It was a little thing, but indicative of the unhealthy power dynamics in our relationship. I probably should have paid attention.</p> </blockquote><p>15.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/UhnonMonster/">UhnonMonster</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>The first (and only) time we had sex he asked me to grade him on it. It was not good for several reasons (strange small peck kisses, awkward leg positioning, no climax for me, unimaginative, rushed) but I liked him and was trying to be nice so I said &ldquo;B+&rdquo;.</p> <p>He then have me a D-.</p> </blockquote><p>16.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Internal-Lifeguard-1/">Internal-Lifeguard-1</a>:</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>No matter what he was eating, he ALWAYS got crumbs or sauce on his face and neglected to wipe it off</p> </blockquote><p>17.) From <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/agx22x23/">agx22x23</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>he told me i had a &quot;fertile build&quot; 🤢</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

17 women share the weird or disturbing thing their ex did that gave them 'the ick.'

Sadly, there often comes a time in a relationship when the person you were once wildly attracted to suddenly becomes repulsive. That feeling of no longer wanting to share a kiss, or a bed, or even a planet, with someone you used to find attractive is called &quot;the ick.&quot; And it can happen for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes it&#39;s not the person&#39;s fault. But more often than not, let&#39;s be honest, &quot;the ick&quot; doesn&#39;t just come from nowhere.In a popular Reddit thread, someone asked women: &quot;What was something your ex did that gave you the ick?&quot;These 17 women share stories of weird, disturbing, or downright horrifying behavior that killed their attraction to an ex:1.) From momof2boys87: Bought me the same perfume his sister wore because it &quot;turned him on.&quot; 2.) From iusedtobefamous1892: He got his mum to cut his toenails for him. He did not have a medical condition or anything that would prevent him from being able to do that himself. This was not a one off thing, he never cut his toenails. His mum always did it for him. 3.) From Uncreativeusername10: My last ex accompanied me to my best friend&rsquo;s birthday celebration with her boyfriend. We payed for a nice hotel room for the night to drink and later explore the hotel (it was a haunted hotel, fun). My ex got the most drunk out of all of us&hellip; and it was a sight. I had never seen him drunk before. Ever. I&rsquo;ve never been so annoyed by someone my entire life. He was trying to force my best friend and I to drink more and more and would call us &ldquo;not fun&rdquo; or &ldquo;boring&rdquo; when we reached our limit and said no.  Eventually when it was time for us to go explore the hotel he refused to let me go with my friends and he made them go without me. Then after they left he waddled out of the bathroom with his pants around his ankles&hellip;literally walking like a toddler&hellip; it was the biggest turn off in my entire life. 4.) From Psithuristic_flatus: Voted for Trump 5.) From Vivalapetitemort: He kissed without putting his lips on mine. He would open his month really wide and be above and below my lips and then just stick his tongue out straight like a hot dog. It was weird. After a make out session my face was sloppy with spit. Not exaggerating, it was gross. He was hands down the worst kisser, but otherwise a great guy. 6.) From 44_Sunflower_44: When he would be flossing his teeth, he would pull the floss out, and then put the floss back in his mouth and eat whatever come out from between his teeth. Omg. I can&rsquo;t 🤮 7.) From forponderings: He introduced me to Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood, which I never got a chance to watch as a teenager. It was a rewatch for him, but a thrilling first experience for me. Well, he talked SO MUCH during the episodes he consistently spoiled minor plot points. He did keep the big surprises a surprise, but MY GOD. I have never had a worse movie watching company, and I doubt I ever will. 8.) From Bris50: A piece of my pubic hair fell out during sex, just like hair shedding while brushing. He saved the piece of hair and kept it on his coffee table. 9.) From potatoes-and-rice: He would tell me all about his imaginary girlfriend, a badass blonde Viking chick named Nova. So then there I was, the mixed race Asian, questioning why I was with this daydreamer. 🤦🏻&zwj;♀️ 10.) From fuibaba: Went with him and his parents to a department store. They were really excited to buy him a work wardrobe as he had graduated and found a job that required smart trousers/shirts. When we got there he sulked with his hands in his pockets because &ldquo;shopping is boring&rdquo;. I pulled him aside, asked him what the hell did he think he was playing at and told him to be grateful. The whole thing disgusted me. Told him to apologise to his parents and later his mum told me I didn&rsquo;t have to have done that. My brain imploded realising that they enabled his behaviour and didn&rsquo;t seem to mind him being rude and ungrateful. 11.) From sweetdmj: At his birthday dinner we had with his parents, unbeknownst to me he took a couple of oxycodons before drinking a few whiskeys. At one point he stood up and then passed out. His parents called an ambulance, when he came to he blamed me for his taking the pills and drinking. 12.) From Picky_vicky: Say he didn&#39;t believe in feminism, just in equality. I&#39;m- 13.) From seehare: A really big ick is when I see them get easily angered and flip out. Even in public. I would get SO embarrassed to be around them. It was like I&rsquo;m babysitting a kid! 14.) From Serenity265432: He would lean me backwards when we hugged so that I had to either cling to him or fall over - it hurt my back and made me feel like I wasn&#39;t in control, but he would just laugh. Wouldn&#39;t stop regardless of how many times I asked. It was a little thing, but indicative of the unhealthy power dynamics in our relationship. I probably should have paid attention. 15.) From UhnonMonster: The first (and only) time we had sex he asked me to grade him on it. It was not good for several reasons (strange small peck kisses, awkward leg positioning, no climax for me, unimaginative, rushed) but I liked him and was trying to be nice so I said &ldquo;B+&rdquo;. He then have me a D-. 16.) From Internal-Lifeguard-1: No matter what he was eating, he ALWAYS got crumbs or sauce on his face and neglected to wipe it off 17.) From agx22x23: he told me i had a &quot;fertile build&quot; 🤢 

Sadly, there often comes a time in a relationship when the person you were once wildly attracted to suddenly becomes repulsive. That feeling of no longer wanting to share a kiss, or a bed, or even a planet, with someone you used to find...