A woman's open letter to her ex describing how she learned to love herself again after emotional abuse at his hands is going viral on Facebook, with over 35,000 people sharing her post. Suck on that, abusive a-hole ex! The woman who wrote the letter, Alabama resident Brittaney Lynn Shane, seems very happy these days, which is, of course, the best revenge of all.

You always told me I didn't look good with long hair and that you preferred girls with short hair. So I kept my hair...

Posted by Brittaney Lynn Shane on Friday, December 4, 2015

The long letter reads:

Sources: Mashable