Weddings are stressful, especially for the bride, but that doesn't necessarily excuse their terrible behavior. A bride-to-be is being called an "a**hole" after she took to Reddit's "Am I The A**hole?" forum to ask if she's in the wrong for removing her pregnant best friend from her bridal party for not helping enough or giving her enough attention.
I (23f) have been best friends with Lottie (23f) since we were 5. I am getting married in a month's time. I asked Lottie to be my bridesmaid and she accepted. A few weeks after she accepted she told me she was pregnant and due two weeks after my wedding. I said that was fine and I didn't mind that she would be heavily pregnant.
I keep asking her for help arranging things, and planning things but she always has an excuse. I understand that she is pregnant but I feel that she's not really that interested in my wedding. She hasn't been asking me any questions about what I am doing and showing very little interest when I try and talk about it.