Bachelor and bachelorette parties are a pre-wedding tradition that tend to involve drinking, debauchery and, quite often, strippers. The idea is to give brides and grooms one last opportunity to stare at/rub up against a stranger's nude body before committing their lives to staring at/rubbing up against one nude person's body, forever.
But while bachelor/ette parties may be fun for some people, they aren't for everyone. One bride took to Reddit's "Am I The A**hole?" forum to vent her anger at one of her bridesmaids for refusing to attend her NSFW bachelorette party.
I'm getting married in a week. One of my bridesmaids, June, is pretty much the opposite of me. Shes very reserved whereas I am a party type gal--love going out to clubs with my fiance! Anyways, for my Bachelorette party, I wanted to go hire male strippers. Everyone thought it was a great idea...except June.