Woman wonders if she should dump boyfriend who cried when she bullied him into getting circumcised.

Woman wonders if she should dump boyfriend who cried when she bullied him into getting circumcised.

A woman has generated a firestorm of controversy on Reddit with a post complaining about her boyfriend's wussy reaction to her badgering him into getting a circumcision. The post was removed because it got too hot to handle, but it has been preserved online for everyone to read, their jaws agape in horror. Check it out.

So I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and started having sexual relations two month ago. When he took down his pants, I was horrified. He was uncircumcized and it looked terrible.

Not wanting to hurt his feelings, I pretended to like it thinking I’d get used to it. I was wrong. Two weeks ago, I talked to him about it to get him to go under the knife so to speak. At first he refused, but I told him about how the three guys I’ve been with had been circumsized and not only did it look better but they said it felt better too. Finally after some persuading, he decided to do it.

Fast forward to yesterday, he finally decided to go to the doctor to undergo the circumcision procedure that would’ve only taken a few minutes. In the waiting room, he started crying and kept saying he couldn’t go through with it.

We left with him still not undergoing the procedure. It was embarrassing for both of us having a grown man cry at the doctor. Why couldn’t he just man up it would be best for him and our relationship?

I don’t know if I can be with a guy who is uncircumsized and worse who would cry in public. No advice needed. Just venting.


Although she didn't ask for advice, she got plenty of it from angry redditors. Always sensitive about men's rights issues, they unloaded on her like a machine gun.

TheShallowNerd wrote:

If him being uncircumsized is too much for you, break up with him. Someone shouldn't have to cut off a part of their penis after freaking SIX MONTHS just to date you. Stop being a toxic, controlling person and don't date ANYONE for a while until you become a better person.


caringexecutive said:

How surprised I am that at 29 you haven't found a partner yet.

mittenista advised:

Yes, definitely break up. He can do better.

Others pointed out that there's an excellent chance this is a troll post, made up by some prankster specifically to attract this kind of furious reaction. But what troll would write "no advice needed" at the end? That would be a waste.


If it is real, then this woman has a serious problem. Anyone who would judge a man for crying as he was waiting for someone to cut off his wang skin has zero empathy for anyone. And as many commenters pointed out, a circumcision is an elective procedure. Most men in the world don't have them (except in the US), and their penises work fine.

Let's hope this post was fake, or if it was real, that they've since broken up. His dong, his choice.