Redditor marrymonay recently received an offer of marriage from her gentleman suitor of over three years. Instead of being a joyous moment, marrymonay has found herself in emotional turmoil because her boyfriend's proposal was terrible, and the dude can't understand why.


In marrymonay's words:

We've been together for 3.5 great years. We've frequently discussed marriage, timelines, and future plans. We live in a home together, have moved across the country together, ect. He is the person I plan to spend my life with. He knows I don't like surprises, so I never expected a big proposal or anything.

But, the way he has gone about it has hurt my feelings.

Sources: h/t Mama Mia