A year ago, Lauren Urasek found out she was the most messaged woman on OKCupid when New York magazine contacted her with the numbers. Apparently, magazines can get that info whenever they want. Now she's writing a book about it, and in an interview with Cosmopolitan shared some tips on how to get your right swipes up. Basically, look like her?

Red lips on a gloomy day.

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Actually, some of her advice is useful no matter who you are. While it's very helpful to be hot, Lauren also makes a good case for being honest about what you look like. For example, a full body shot that's flattering, but true to life. She says:

Sources: h/t Cosmopolitan | Lauren Urasek