Most dudes on Tinder are so used to rejection, they're easily overwhelmed when a woman makes it easy for them. (I speak from personal experience.) That's what happened to Redditor jorgeselva. He matched with a young woman who immediately started flirting with him HARD. But then he got ahead of himself, and wound up ruining everything. Still, you can't help but feel for him.
Ouch. Tough break, dude. For what it's worth, I get what you were trying to do.
At the same time, jorgeselva deserves a lot of credit for sharing this online so the men of Reddit could learn from his mistake. But predictably, they cut him no slack.
Oh well. He'll live to hook up another day. Onward and upward!