The "Am I The A**hole?" community on Reddit is a place where people go seeking answers to complex moral dilemmas by asking total strangers to judge their character. But sometimes these dilemmas are not-so-complex. This story, about a woman whose friend booted her from her bridal party after she refused to wear a wig, is one of those cases where it's pretty clear right-off-the-bat who the a**hole is.
This is a throw away account because the bride follows me on reddit and I'm still a little confused about the whole situation. I am very good friends with the bride to be, lets call her Karen for simplicity. She got engaged about 1.5 years ago and immediately asked me to be a bridesmaid which I was thrilled about (she was my maid of honor for context). To make a long story short I got some real bad news in the past year and had to undergo radiation and chemotherapy. I don't want to go into details about this because its still very traumatic for me.