Online Dating

Online dating is hard enough without people lying about their relationship status. Reddit user <a data-testid="post_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/lotsof-cookies/">u/lotsof-cookies</a> found herself hitting it off with a guy she met online, only to find out he was married.Now she&#39;s on <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t0fce4/should_i_contact_his_wife/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=ios_app&amp;utm_name=iossmf">r/dating_advice</a> asking if she should expose this husband&#39;s web of lies to his wife.She writes:<h1>Should I contact his wife?</h1><blockquote> I am giving dating online a chance, trying to find the love of my life or whatever. I downloaded one of the dating apps, matched with this guy and started chatting. We decided to exchange numbers and move to WhatsApp. </blockquote><blockquote> A quick search of his number found his fb page and his wife&#39;s account. I sent him the screenshots, told him I know he is a liar, and blocked him. </blockquote><blockquote> Now I have his wife&#39;s account, is it better to forget about it or should I contact her to let her know her husband is online pretending to be divorced? </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>This is one of the biggest nightmares with online dating, and it&#39;s a damn shame how much it actually happens to people. It&#39;s a tricky situation so I&#39;m not surprised she reached out for help.On one hand, the wife might turn on you, or the husband could lash out for revenge if this blows up his game. In my opinion, it all comes down to the golden rule, treat others how you would want to be treated. If you would want someone to tell you your husband was online dating and cheating on you (probably with multiple women) then you have a responsibility, to tell the truth.The people of Reddit absolutely went off on this cheater. Some of them have been in the wife&#39;s position themselves. The majority of people would want to know the truth about their spouse&#39;s wandering eye. Would you?<div className="ad-splitter"></div><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Khione541/">Khione541</a><blockquote> In the future, if you find out this stuff, keep it to yourself and don&#39;t tell the cheater you know, just gather all the evidence you can and then block them. </blockquote><blockquote> Tipping them off that you found out gives them time to damage control with their spouse and make up some bullshit lies about you being &quot;crazy&quot; and being a &quot;stalker,&quot; etc., all things cheaters are well versed at and will do. </blockquote><blockquote> Take the evidence to the betrayed spouse directly. </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Comatreats710420/">Comatreats710420</a><blockquote> I would definitely call her and have a copy of the interactions too cause there are many trolls out there that just do that to be hurtful </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Mizango/">Mizang</a><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> Yes. He wants to be single, give her the option to make his bi*tch ass\ single. </blockquote><blockquote> Nobody deserves to be a plan B or a sh*t-bags safety net. </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/starlilune/">starlilune</a><blockquote> i think u should. every time i&rsquo;ve been in this situation i have and 90% of the time they&rsquo;re very thankful u let them know. ppl who r saying it&rsquo;s not ur business r either cheaters themselves or have no empathy lol. </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/ericviking007/">ericviking007</a><blockquote> My ex wife cheated on me for a long time with a lot of guys . I wished someone told me </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/H3lltotheNO/">H3lltotheNO</a><blockquote> Do it! She deserves to know. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/RobWins2022/">RobWins2022</a><blockquote> ALWAYS TELL. </blockquote><blockquote> If you do not out the cheater, they will just continue to cheat. Think about it, YOU would want to know, right? Before you waste half your life with half a man? </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/NightCheffing/">NightCheffing</a><blockquote> Definitely tell her. If their relationship is open, she&#39;ll have a good laugh, and no harm will have been done. If it&#39;s not, she&#39;ll be able to make an informed decision about the situation. </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Complex-Bag8307/">Complex-Bag8307</a><blockquote> Tell her, unleash all hell. If not for karma on him then do it for her, she doesn&rsquo;t deserve to be with a scumbag. She deserves to know </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman asks if she's should let wife know about cheating husband she met on dating app.

Online dating is hard enough without people lying about their relationship status. Reddit user u/lotsof-cookies found herself hitting it off with a guy she met online, only to find out he was married.Now she&#39;s on r/dating_advice asking if she should expose this husband&#39;s web of lies to his wife.She writes:Should I contact his wife? I am giving dating online a chance, trying to find the love of my life or whatever. I downloaded one of the dating apps, matched with this guy and started chatting. We decided to exchange numbers and move to WhatsApp.  A quick search of his number found his fb page and his wife&#39;s account. I sent him the screenshots, told him I know he is a liar, and blocked him.  Now I have his wife&#39;s account, is it better to forget about it or should I contact her to let her know her husband is online pretending to be divorced? This is one of the biggest nightmares with online dating, and it&#39;s a damn shame how much it actually happens to people. It&#39;s a tricky situation so I&#39;m not surprised she reached out for help.On one hand, the wife might turn on you, or the husband could lash out for revenge if this blows up his game. In my opinion, it all comes down to the golden rule, treat others how you would want to be treated. If you would want someone to tell you your husband was online dating and cheating on you (probably with multiple women) then you have a responsibility, to tell the truth.The people of Reddit absolutely went off on this cheater. Some of them have been in the wife&#39;s position themselves. The majority of people would want to know the truth about their spouse&#39;s wandering eye. Would you?Khione541 In the future, if you find out this stuff, keep it to yourself and don&#39;t tell the cheater you know, just gather all the evidence you can and then block them.  Tipping them off that you found out gives them time to damage control with their spouse and make up some bullshit lies about you being &quot;crazy&quot; and being a &quot;stalker,&quot; etc., all things cheaters are well versed at and will do.  Take the evidence to the betrayed spouse directly. Comatreats710420 I would definitely call her and have a copy of the interactions too cause there are many trolls out there that just do that to be hurtful Mizang Yes. He wants to be single, give her the option to make his bi*tch ass\ single.  Nobody deserves to be a plan B or a sh*t-bags safety net. starlilune i think u should. every time i&rsquo;ve been in this situation i have and 90% of the time they&rsquo;re very thankful u let them know. ppl who r saying it&rsquo;s not ur business r either cheaters themselves or have no empathy lol. ericviking007 My ex wife cheated on me for a long time with a lot of guys . I wished someone told me H3lltotheNO Do it! She deserves to know. RobWins2022 ALWAYS TELL.  If you do not out the cheater, they will just continue to cheat. Think about it, YOU would want to know, right? Before you waste half your life with half a man? NightCheffing Definitely tell her. If their relationship is open, she&#39;ll have a good laugh, and no harm will have been done. If it&#39;s not, she&#39;ll be able to make an informed decision about the situation. Complex-Bag8307 Tell her, unleash all hell. If not for karma on him then do it for her, she doesn&rsquo;t deserve to be with a scumbag. She deserves to know 

Online dating is hard enough without people lying about their relationship status. Reddit user u/lotsof-cookies found herself hitting it off with a guy she met online, only to find out he was married.  Now she&#39;s on r/dating_advice...