Relationships can bring out the best in people, but they can also bring out the absolute worst. Especially when those relationships are toxic, unstable, or one or both partners is being manipulative or dishonest. It takes two to tango, and very often if one partner is behaving in a "crazy" manner, there's something going on behind-the-scenes to trigger that behavior, or at least enable it. In the words of a legendary Reductress headline: "I’m Sorry I Was Being So Crazy While You Were Treating Me Like Shit."
1.) From gangsterpanda:
I've definitely been "crazy". Snooped through phones, emails, etc. because I knew in my bones he was cheating (confirmed). It made me realize I never want to be with someone who I feel like I "need " to snoop on. Walked away after that.