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Nobody deserves to be punished for a crime that they didn&#39;t commit. But we all know life isn&#39;t fair, and that includes the so-called &quot;justice&quot; system. Innocent people get punished all the time for crimes they didn&#39;t commit&mdash;in courts-of-law, and also in relationships.Someone <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/seob4w/people_who_have_been_incorrectly_accused_of/" target="_blank">asked</a> Reddit: &quot;People who have been incorrectly accused of cheating, what was your partners proof?&quot;<h2>These 22 people share stories of what led a partner to falsely accuse them of infidelity:</h2>1.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Zonefluffy/">Zonefluffy</a>:<blockquote> A pair of my wife&rsquo;s panties fell out from the leg hole of my pants while I was driving to work. I grab them and shove them in the driver side door pocket and promptly forget about them. Several weeks later we are cleaning out our cars together and she finds them and is like WTF. She doesn&rsquo;t recognize them as her own. Finally remembers after I scroll through several thousand of my pictures to find a pic of her actually wearing them. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>2.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/yankstraveler/">yankstraveler</a>:<blockquote> Her &quot;proof&quot; was that I was friends with a woman in the same area on Facebook. I did volunteer work at the local hospital, I was friends with a lot of the hospital staff on Facebook. Her accusation came very shortly after my brother caught her on a date with another guy. </blockquote>3.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Different_Avocado501/">Different_Avocado501</a>:<blockquote> She cheated on me and decided that means I must clearly also be cheating. </blockquote>4.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/HalfaManYouAre/">HalfaManYouAre</a>:<blockquote> I was deep into a online game and my wife came to me with a bra that definitely wasn&#39;t hers. She stood by the door and loudly said &quot;whoose are these?&quot;. I took what she said as a innocent question, rather than an investigation. I quickly looked over and said &quot;f**k if I know&quot; and went back to my game. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> She quickly realized that if I had cheated, and she found proof, I would have had a deer in headlights look for a second. It was her sister&#39;s bra that somehow go into our laundry. We laugh about it to this day. </blockquote>5.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/DontStopMe_/">DontStopMe_</a>:<blockquote> My brother text me, asking me if I was working tonight. Ex decided I just changed the name in my phone to my brother name but it wasn&rsquo;t really my brother because why would my brother ask that? </blockquote>6.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/half_in_boxes/">half_in_boxes</a>:<blockquote> He installed a key logger on my laptop and found a chat of me politely turning down a guy I&#39;d met (as part of a mutual friend group) a few weeks previous. When I pointed out that he&#39;d found explicit proof that I had in fact not cheated, he went off on a tirade about how I&#39;m never around anymore and never paid attention to him anymore and that was as bad as cheating. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> My father had died four months before. I wasn&#39;t around much because between work and school, I had to go back to my home state to clear out his house and deal with the estate. And, you know, spend some time with my remaining family. I threw the whole man out. </blockquote>7.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/germanfinder/">germanfinder</a>:<blockquote> Well, my GF was huge on projecting. It wasn&rsquo;t proof and she didn&rsquo;t directly accuse me of cheating, but it was insinuated. After doing laundry she noticed she didn&rsquo;t see one of my nice pairs of black boxers. Pretty much her argument/verge of tears was because &ldquo;can&rsquo;t find them&rdquo; equals &ldquo;they must be at another girls house.&rdquo; And she was dead serious. </blockquote><blockquote> Anyways, they were just behind the laundry hamper. For the time being. After we broke up I found out she was f**king her boss. So, projection is real folks </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>8.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/mr4d/">mr4d</a>:<blockquote> She found a necklace in my bed and I didn&#39;t know how it got there. Turned out to be her necklace that she had lost and didnt recognize in the dark. </blockquote>9.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/paperdoll07/">paperdoll07</a>:<blockquote> Not me but a friend of mine. She broke up with her boyfriend because she believed he cheated on her because she got a UTI. She honestly believed she &ldquo;caught&rdquo; it from him like an STD. </blockquote>10.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/NOSRETTAP_RAPS/">NOSRETTAP_RAPS</a>:<blockquote> She saw the names of my female family members in my contacts. She freaked out and angrily asked who my stepmother was, my stepsisters, my cousins, my auntie. It lasted about two minutes. She started to realize she was being an idiot, and I realized I didn&rsquo;t like her anymore. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>11.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Skinnee11/">Skinnee11</a>:<blockquote> She knew that if I drove exactly the speed limit and hit every light that it would take me 12min to get home after work. The one time I showed up in 14min was all the proof she needed. </blockquote>12.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Skinnee11/">Skinnee11</a>:<blockquote> She knew that if I drove exactly the speed limit and hit every light that it would take me 12min to get home after work. The one time I showed up in 14min was all the proof she needed. </blockquote> 13.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Enoch-Of-Nod/">Enoch-Of-Nod</a>:<blockquote> She heard a woman in the room laughing through the phone when she called me to accuse me of being out with another woman. Turns out there are other people in the world and when you&#39;re out in public you just may encounter them. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>14.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/SnowballinHell247/">SnowballinHell247</a>:<blockquote> I got a happy birthday text from a guy. It was my brother in law. </blockquote>15.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/bicycletourist/">bicycletourist</a>:<blockquote> I have poor handwriting. I was running a business and someone suggested I contact &quot;Till&quot; about some sales. I wrote &quot;Till&quot; down in my phonebook (it was long ago when people used personal phonebooks). </blockquote><blockquote> I come home months later to the question &quot;Who&#39;s Jill?&quot; I don&#39;t know anyone named Jill. I am stumped. After a few rounds of who? huh? why?, my girlfriend shows me the entry in my handwriting. It takes me a while to place the name. I explain that it isn&#39;t Jill but Till, a man. </blockquote><blockquote> That was the end of it, but I never got over her looking through my personal phonebook for revealing entries. In the end, we split 2 weeks before we were to get married. Till never did buy anything from me. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>16.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Day81/">Day81</a>:<blockquote> Yes, several times during my marriage (divorced 3 years now). Her proof? Other women existed. I never did, but if I acknowledged the existence of other women the accusations would start to fly for the next two weeks. What finally caused me to get a divorce? Finding out about her affairs. </blockquote>17.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/trkyjerky/">trkyjerky</a>:<blockquote> She has cheated so many times that she immediately &quot;recognized&quot; my behavior. </blockquote>18.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/jephistopheles/">jephistopheles</a>:<blockquote> Because she hit *69 on my phone and a girl answered. Turned out to be her roommate, because the only person I ever called from my phone was my girlfriend. </blockquote>19.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Blondeinsideandout/">Blondeinsideandout</a>:<div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> My ex was incredibly distrustful. I was young and didn&rsquo;t know any better. One day he confronted me saying he had proof I was cheating. I was incredibly bewildered as I am the faithful type and wouldn&rsquo;t even look at another man. When I pushed for proof he admitted to having me followed by a private detective who had seen me get into a red mini. The mini belonged to a colleague who gave me a lift home from work one day. A female colleague. I ended the relationship there and then and chalk it up to a lucky escape. </blockquote>20.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/blindfire40/">blindfire40</a>:<blockquote> When my wife and I had 1st begun dating, I had a phone that had a bad habit of butt dialing. One day, she was acting very standoffish So I could tell something was up. I kept asking her, and finally she got really upset and started grilling me about who that girl was that I was flirting with on the voicemail I left her when I butt dialed her. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> I pulled up my call logs, and sure enough I had accidentally called her the previous afternoon. While she and I were hanging out in the library. She was concerned that I was cheating on her with herself. </blockquote>21.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/NutellaCakes/">NutellaCakes</a>:<blockquote> She was jealous of a female acquaintance I had at the time ( I use that word because we were friends through my cousin not actual friends) and she is a very in your face funny type of individual. </blockquote><blockquote> She unlocked my phone when I was sleeping and scoured it. I woke up and saw her. Had a long talk, she cried, I got annoyed. Dumped her the next day. Found out she was projecting because she had been cheating our entire relationship (just over a year together). So, there&rsquo;s that. </blockquote>22.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/SSOJ16/">SSOJ16</a>:<div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> Husband found a condom wrapper under the couch. He never cleans, so don&#39;t know how he found it lol I was stumped. I had no idea. A few weeks prior we had a couple friends over that crashed on our couch of our extremely tiny shoebox apartment. </blockquote><blockquote> Went out with my female friend, (I was also friends with the dude) she tells me she had sex with said friend and they&#39;re discussing dating. I asked when and where. She told me that night at my place. I connected all the dots, told her I don&#39;t care how low key she wants it kept for now, she is explaining what happened. So we called, she explained they had sex on our couch. Which. I wasn&#39;t too thrilled about but I was going crazy wondering where the fuck this condom wrapper came from.. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

22 people who were falsely accused of cheating on their partner share what happened.

Nobody deserves to be punished for a crime that they didn&#39;t commit. But we all know life isn&#39;t fair, and that includes the so-called &quot;justice&quot; system. Innocent people get punished all the time for crimes they didn&#39;t commit&mdash;in courts-of-law, and also in relationships.Someone asked Reddit: &quot;People who have been incorrectly accused of cheating, what was your partners proof?&quot;These 22 people share stories of what led a partner to falsely accuse them of infidelity:1.) From Zonefluffy: A pair of my wife&rsquo;s panties fell out from the leg hole of my pants while I was driving to work. I grab them and shove them in the driver side door pocket and promptly forget about them. Several weeks later we are cleaning out our cars together and she finds them and is like WTF. She doesn&rsquo;t recognize them as her own. Finally remembers after I scroll through several thousand of my pictures to find a pic of her actually wearing them. 2.) From yankstraveler: Her &quot;proof&quot; was that I was friends with a woman in the same area on Facebook. I did volunteer work at the local hospital, I was friends with a lot of the hospital staff on Facebook. Her accusation came very shortly after my brother caught her on a date with another guy. 3.) From Different_Avocado501: She cheated on me and decided that means I must clearly also be cheating. 4.) From HalfaManYouAre: I was deep into a online game and my wife came to me with a bra that definitely wasn&#39;t hers. She stood by the door and loudly said &quot;whoose are these?&quot;. I took what she said as a innocent question, rather than an investigation. I quickly looked over and said &quot;f**k if I know&quot; and went back to my game.  She quickly realized that if I had cheated, and she found proof, I would have had a deer in headlights look for a second. It was her sister&#39;s bra that somehow go into our laundry. We laugh about it to this day. 5.) From DontStopMe_: My brother text me, asking me if I was working tonight. Ex decided I just changed the name in my phone to my brother name but it wasn&rsquo;t really my brother because why would my brother ask that? 6.) From half_in_boxes: He installed a key logger on my laptop and found a chat of me politely turning down a guy I&#39;d met (as part of a mutual friend group) a few weeks previous. When I pointed out that he&#39;d found explicit proof that I had in fact not cheated, he went off on a tirade about how I&#39;m never around anymore and never paid attention to him anymore and that was as bad as cheating.  My father had died four months before. I wasn&#39;t around much because between work and school, I had to go back to my home state to clear out his house and deal with the estate. And, you know, spend some time with my remaining family. I threw the whole man out. 7.) From germanfinder: Well, my GF was huge on projecting. It wasn&rsquo;t proof and she didn&rsquo;t directly accuse me of cheating, but it was insinuated. After doing laundry she noticed she didn&rsquo;t see one of my nice pairs of black boxers. Pretty much her argument/verge of tears was because &ldquo;can&rsquo;t find them&rdquo; equals &ldquo;they must be at another girls house.&rdquo; And she was dead serious.  Anyways, they were just behind the laundry hamper. For the time being. After we broke up I found out she was f**king her boss. So, projection is real folks 8.) From mr4d: She found a necklace in my bed and I didn&#39;t know how it got there. Turned out to be her necklace that she had lost and didnt recognize in the dark. 9.) From paperdoll07: Not me but a friend of mine. She broke up with her boyfriend because she believed he cheated on her because she got a UTI. She honestly believed she &ldquo;caught&rdquo; it from him like an STD. 10.) From NOSRETTAP_RAPS: She saw the names of my female family members in my contacts. She freaked out and angrily asked who my stepmother was, my stepsisters, my cousins, my auntie. It lasted about two minutes. She started to realize she was being an idiot, and I realized I didn&rsquo;t like her anymore. 11.) From Skinnee11: She knew that if I drove exactly the speed limit and hit every light that it would take me 12min to get home after work. The one time I showed up in 14min was all the proof she needed. 12.) From Skinnee11: She knew that if I drove exactly the speed limit and hit every light that it would take me 12min to get home after work. The one time I showed up in 14min was all the proof she needed.  13.) From Enoch-Of-Nod: She heard a woman in the room laughing through the phone when she called me to accuse me of being out with another woman. Turns out there are other people in the world and when you&#39;re out in public you just may encounter them. 14.) From SnowballinHell247: I got a happy birthday text from a guy. It was my brother in law. 15.) From bicycletourist: I have poor handwriting. I was running a business and someone suggested I contact &quot;Till&quot; about some sales. I wrote &quot;Till&quot; down in my phonebook (it was long ago when people used personal phonebooks).  I come home months later to the question &quot;Who&#39;s Jill?&quot; I don&#39;t know anyone named Jill. I am stumped. After a few rounds of who? huh? why?, my girlfriend shows me the entry in my handwriting. It takes me a while to place the name. I explain that it isn&#39;t Jill but Till, a man.  That was the end of it, but I never got over her looking through my personal phonebook for revealing entries. In the end, we split 2 weeks before we were to get married. Till never did buy anything from me. 16.) From Day81: Yes, several times during my marriage (divorced 3 years now). Her proof? Other women existed. I never did, but if I acknowledged the existence of other women the accusations would start to fly for the next two weeks. What finally caused me to get a divorce? Finding out about her affairs. 17.) From trkyjerky: She has cheated so many times that she immediately &quot;recognized&quot; my behavior. 18.) From jephistopheles: Because she hit *69 on my phone and a girl answered. Turned out to be her roommate, because the only person I ever called from my phone was my girlfriend. 19.) From Blondeinsideandout: My ex was incredibly distrustful. I was young and didn&rsquo;t know any better. One day he confronted me saying he had proof I was cheating. I was incredibly bewildered as I am the faithful type and wouldn&rsquo;t even look at another man. When I pushed for proof he admitted to having me followed by a private detective who had seen me get into a red mini. The mini belonged to a colleague who gave me a lift home from work one day. A female colleague. I ended the relationship there and then and chalk it up to a lucky escape. 20.) From blindfire40: When my wife and I had 1st begun dating, I had a phone that had a bad habit of butt dialing. One day, she was acting very standoffish So I could tell something was up. I kept asking her, and finally she got really upset and started grilling me about who that girl was that I was flirting with on the voicemail I left her when I butt dialed her.  I pulled up my call logs, and sure enough I had accidentally called her the previous afternoon. While she and I were hanging out in the library. She was concerned that I was cheating on her with herself. 21.) From NutellaCakes: She was jealous of a female acquaintance I had at the time ( I use that word because we were friends through my cousin not actual friends) and she is a very in your face funny type of individual.  She unlocked my phone when I was sleeping and scoured it. I woke up and saw her. Had a long talk, she cried, I got annoyed. Dumped her the next day. Found out she was projecting because she had been cheating our entire relationship (just over a year together). So, there&rsquo;s that. 22.) From SSOJ16: Husband found a condom wrapper under the couch. He never cleans, so don&#39;t know how he found it lol I was stumped. I had no idea. A few weeks prior we had a couple friends over that crashed on our couch of our extremely tiny shoebox apartment.  Went out with my female friend, (I was also friends with the dude) she tells me she had sex with said friend and they&#39;re discussing dating. I asked when and where. She told me that night at my place. I connected all the dots, told her I don&#39;t care how low key she wants it kept for now, she is explaining what happened. So we called, she explained they had sex on our couch. Which. I wasn&#39;t too thrilled about but I was going crazy wondering where the fuck this condom wrapper came from.. 

Nobody deserves to be punished for a crime that they didn&#39;t commit. But we all know life isn&#39;t fair, and that includes the so-called &quot;justice&quot; system. Innocent people get punished all the time for crimes they didn&#39;t...