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Tattoos are a way to express creativity, but not everyone&#39;s a fan. Reddit user <a data-testid="post_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/aitawifetattoo/">u/aitawifetattoo</a> absolutely hates his wife&#39;s tats. The latest one she came home with was admittedly silly, but when this husband shared it to an online &quot;bad tattoo&quot; shaming group without her knowledge, his wife got mad.Now he&#39;s asking the internet:<h2><a href="http://ments/t162mb/aita_for_posting_my_wifes_new_tattoo_in_a_shaming/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=ios_app&amp;utm_name=iossmf">AITA</a> (Am I The As*hole) for posting my wife&rsquo;s new tattoo in a shaming group?</h2>He writes:<blockquote> So my wife has a lot of tattoos. Some of them are really really high quality and meaningful, others are smaller and more silly. </blockquote><blockquote> She recently got a large piece that she saw on TikTok (paid the artist for the right to use the design, no stealing here) </blockquote><blockquote> She didn&rsquo;t tell me what the tattoo was, and when she came home she was giggling and showed me the dumbest tattoo I had ever seen. It was big and right on the front of her thigh. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> I&rsquo;m a part of a couple of silly groups on Facebook where people post bad rings, bad tattoos, makeup, etc. </blockquote><blockquote> I took the post from my wife&rsquo;s Instagram and posted it, cropping out her Instagram name. </blockquote><blockquote> I guess my wife has friends that are in the group and they told her. My wife came in and told me I was a jerk for doing that and just because she knows it&rsquo;s a silly tattoo doesn&rsquo;t mean she deserves to be publicly ridiculed for it. </blockquote><blockquote> My friends tell me it was a harmless joke but my wife is super mad at me. </blockquote><blockquote> AITA? </blockquote>But wait, there&#39;s more! When someone asked the OP to show his wife&#39;s tattoo in the group, he answered:<blockquote> My wife said if I post it anywhere else she has a bag packed and will leave me so no. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>But thankfully, he did describe it. <blockquote> It&rsquo;s 2 rats wearing top hats holding hands </blockquote>Now that you what the tattoo in question is, what do you think about this husband&#39;s decision to share it in the online shaming groups? I personally think it&#39;s never ok to post a picture of someone anywhere without their express consent. (I&#39;ve been tagged in one too many fugly candid shots.) So I absolutely think it was wrong, but I&#39;m not sure there was any malicious intent. Hopefully, this husband learns his lesson that private jokes with your spouse, should stay private. The people of Reddit were less forgiving, they pretty much tore this guy a new one, and labeled him &quot;The As*hole.&quot;<a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Imaginary-Jelly-3565/">Imaginary-Jelly-3565</a><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> You haven&rsquo;t even told us what the tattoo is, so I&rsquo;m guessing the tattoo actually looks fine and you just decided to humiliate your wife for a laugh because it wasn&rsquo;t your cup of tea. </blockquote><blockquote> Which would be shitty even if it WAS a bad tattoo. That&rsquo;s your wife, dude, why would you do that to someone you supposedly love and care about? YTA </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/boogie_butt/">boogie_butt</a><blockquote> &ldquo;I opened my wife up for public ridicule. AITA?&rdquo; Yes. </blockquote><blockquote> I&rsquo;m in ink shaming groups on Facebook, and those can be brutal. Although the rules are often to not shame the tattooed person, that rule isn&rsquo;t always followed. </blockquote><blockquote> YTA. It wasn&rsquo;t done with good intent. And you know what the outcome could have been, and you know they could have made some really awful comments toward her personally. You know this. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/flutterby727/">flutterby727</a><blockquote> You literally publicly shamed your wife. How do you think you&rsquo;re not an AH for that? YTA </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/flutterby727/">flutterby727</a><blockquote> You literally publicly shamed your wife. How do you think you&rsquo;re not an AH for that? YTA </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/NannyBismo/">NannyBismo</a><blockquote> YTA, a harmless joke would&#39;ve involved her being aware of the joke, not being the joke itself. </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Bellbell28/">Bellbell28</a><blockquote> YTA- you took a photo of your wife&rsquo;s body and posted it to a Facebook group that shames and makes jokes at people&#39;s expense. </blockquote><blockquote> Regardless of how stupid you think the tattoo is, that is just mean behavior. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/lynncross2001/">lynncross2001</a><blockquote> Nothing says I love my spouse like publicly shaming them&hellip;..YTA </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/HellBoundWhiskeyBent/">HellBoundWhiskeyBent</a><blockquote> RIP to your sex life for a while homie. This is exactly the kinda dumb shit I would do. </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/pinkyeti91/">pinkyeti91</a><blockquote> It literally has the word &quot;shaming&quot; in it and you have to ask where you stand? Really?YTA. </blockquote><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Brave_Hat34/">Brave_Hat34</a><blockquote> Do you even like your wife? YTA, you have no shame in publicly humiliating her. You seem to enjoy crapping on things she likes. She deserves better </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Husband asks if he's wrong for posting his wife's tattoo in an online shaming group.

Tattoos are a way to express creativity, but not everyone&#39;s a fan. Reddit user u/aitawifetattoo absolutely hates his wife&#39;s tats. The latest one she came home with was admittedly silly, but when this husband shared it to an online &quot;bad tattoo&quot; shaming group without her knowledge, his wife got mad.Now he&#39;s asking the internet:AITA (Am I The As*hole) for posting my wife&rsquo;s new tattoo in a shaming group?He writes: So my wife has a lot of tattoos. Some of them are really really high quality and meaningful, others are smaller and more silly.  She recently got a large piece that she saw on TikTok (paid the artist for the right to use the design, no stealing here)  She didn&rsquo;t tell me what the tattoo was, and when she came home she was giggling and showed me the dumbest tattoo I had ever seen. It was big and right on the front of her thigh.  I&rsquo;m a part of a couple of silly groups on Facebook where people post bad rings, bad tattoos, makeup, etc.  I took the post from my wife&rsquo;s Instagram and posted it, cropping out her Instagram name.  I guess my wife has friends that are in the group and they told her. My wife came in and told me I was a jerk for doing that and just because she knows it&rsquo;s a silly tattoo doesn&rsquo;t mean she deserves to be publicly ridiculed for it.  My friends tell me it was a harmless joke but my wife is super mad at me.  AITA? But wait, there&#39;s more! When someone asked the OP to show his wife&#39;s tattoo in the group, he answered: My wife said if I post it anywhere else she has a bag packed and will leave me so no. But thankfully, he did describe it.  It&rsquo;s 2 rats wearing top hats holding hands Now that you what the tattoo in question is, what do you think about this husband&#39;s decision to share it in the online shaming groups? I personally think it&#39;s never ok to post a picture of someone anywhere without their express consent. (I&#39;ve been tagged in one too many fugly candid shots.) So I absolutely think it was wrong, but I&#39;m not sure there was any malicious intent. Hopefully, this husband learns his lesson that private jokes with your spouse, should stay private. The people of Reddit were less forgiving, they pretty much tore this guy a new one, and labeled him &quot;The As*hole.&quot;Imaginary-Jelly-3565 You haven&rsquo;t even told us what the tattoo is, so I&rsquo;m guessing the tattoo actually looks fine and you just decided to humiliate your wife for a laugh because it wasn&rsquo;t your cup of tea.  Which would be shitty even if it WAS a bad tattoo. That&rsquo;s your wife, dude, why would you do that to someone you supposedly love and care about? YTA boogie_butt &ldquo;I opened my wife up for public ridicule. AITA?&rdquo; Yes.  I&rsquo;m in ink shaming groups on Facebook, and those can be brutal. Although the rules are often to not shame the tattooed person, that rule isn&rsquo;t always followed.  YTA. It wasn&rsquo;t done with good intent. And you know what the outcome could have been, and you know they could have made some really awful comments toward her personally. You know this. flutterby727 You literally publicly shamed your wife. How do you think you&rsquo;re not an AH for that? YTA flutterby727 You literally publicly shamed your wife. How do you think you&rsquo;re not an AH for that? YTA NannyBismo YTA, a harmless joke would&#39;ve involved her being aware of the joke, not being the joke itself. Bellbell28 YTA- you took a photo of your wife&rsquo;s body and posted it to a Facebook group that shames and makes jokes at people&#39;s expense.  Regardless of how stupid you think the tattoo is, that is just mean behavior. lynncross2001 Nothing says I love my spouse like publicly shaming them&hellip;..YTA HellBoundWhiskeyBent RIP to your sex life for a while homie. This is exactly the kinda dumb shit I would do. pinkyeti91 It literally has the word &quot;shaming&quot; in it and you have to ask where you stand? Really?YTA. Brave_Hat34 Do you even like your wife? YTA, you have no shame in publicly humiliating her. You seem to enjoy crapping on things she likes. She deserves better 

Tattoos are a way to express creativity, but not everyone&#39;s a fan. Reddit user  u/aitawifetattoo absolutely hates his wife&#39;s tats. The latest one she came home with was admittedly silly, but when this husband shared it to an online...