Relationships

Romantic relationships require a certain degree of acceptance for your partner&#39;s weird habits and personality quirks, but that doesn&#39;t mean you have to like them. You might even hate them. If there&#39;s nothing you hate about your partner, congrats, but also you probably just haven&#39;t been together long enough for you to find out....In a popular Reddit thread, someone <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/t8v35s/what_do_you_hate_about_your_partner_but_cant_tell/" target="_blank">asked</a> people in relationships: &quot;What do you hate about your partner, but can&rsquo;t tell them?&quot;<h2>These 29 people spill the dirt on the things about their partner they secretly can&#39;t stand, and they range from adorable quirks to probably grounds for a divorce:</h2>1.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/stln3rd/">stln3rd</a>:<blockquote> My wife took singing lessons as a kid. She is certain that she has a great singing voice. She does not. It&rsquo;s so hard to be in the same house when she&rsquo;s singing but I love her dearly and would never ask her to stop. </blockquote>2.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/1980pzx/">1980pzx</a>:<div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> I wake up teetering on the edge of the bed, every f**king night. We have a king size bed and she is petite, I tell her but it doesn&rsquo;t matter. Every. F**king. Night. </blockquote>3.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/DrFridayTK/">DrFridayTK</a>:<blockquote> The way she pronounces the word &quot;hamburger&quot; makes me die inside. &quot;ham BIRD gr&quot; </blockquote>4.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/StGir1/">StGir1</a>:<blockquote> He&rsquo;s really really bad at taking criticism. Really bad. And I can&rsquo;t tell him this because feedback loop etc. </blockquote>5.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/demonj00/">demonj00</a>:<blockquote> That she sounds like a horse when she eats a bowl of cereal. </blockquote>6.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/ArrdenGarden/">ArrdenGarden</a>:<div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> She has a hard time cleaning up after herself. I work full time during the week, she works weekends. The house is a mess during the week and spotless during the weekend. Monday night, I come home and it&#39;s a mess again. Oof, lady. Get it together. </blockquote><blockquote> And the way she drinks. Gulps everything like she out of air and the only way to get more is to suck it off the bottom of whatever vessel she&#39;s drinking out of. Food noises kill me and she knows it but the gulping is unconscious so I try not to let it bother me. Love her more than everything. She&#39;s my best friend in all ways. But those are the two. </blockquote>7.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/BusinessFeeling7121/">BusinessFeeling7121</a>:<blockquote> She&rsquo;s one of those people that walks too slow in the grocery store and stands there looking at sh*t forever trying to decide what to get not aware that 2 other people right behind her trying to grab what she&rsquo;s in front of and go </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>8.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/sparklingjunkie/">sparklingjunkie</a>:<blockquote> The sound he makes when he eats bagels. Not everything, just bagels, and he eats bagels every morning for breakfast. It&rsquo;s disgusting. </blockquote>9.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/imav8n/">imav8n</a>:<blockquote> That they expect an apology for every hurt feeling, but almost never take accountability or apologize for their own actions when they hurt other people. </blockquote>10.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/nagol93/">nagol93</a>:<blockquote> How indecisive she can be. We&#39;ve talked and she&#39;s doing better. But it is extremely exhausting to plan nearly every single date/event/thing we do. </blockquote>11.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/BeatnikWoman/">BeatnikWoman</a>:<blockquote> His snoring. It&#39;s not something he can necessarily control but he snores SO loud that it disrupts my sleep. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>12.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/CaliforniaCow/">CaliforniaCow</a>:<blockquote> I hate how she&rsquo;s a bad listener. Never wants to know about my day, never takes my advice, never wants to know what&rsquo;s wrong with me. </blockquote>13.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/NearbyPage6955/">NearbyPage6955</a>:<blockquote> How low her patience is &amp; how fast she can get irritated, and i know how she is &amp; I know she doesn&rsquo;t mean it 99% of the time, but sometimes it has me overthinking and I feel like she just hates me </blockquote>14.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/lesliebNOPE/">lesliebNOPE</a>:<blockquote> He&rsquo;s a bad kisser. I tried hard to communicate and help in the beginning of the relationship, but nothing worked or stuck. It&rsquo;s been a lot of years. I gave up. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>15.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/TunaFishSammie321/">TunaFishSammie321</a>:<blockquote> We&rsquo;re completely different regarding physical affection. </blockquote>16.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/TigerRose1226/">TigerRose1226</a>:<blockquote> I don&rsquo;t necessarily hate this about him, but he doesn&rsquo;t like to just kiss/make out. He will do it before sexy times, but not for very long. I love showing affection and intimacy by just making out sometimes and not having it lead to anything. He had some trauma with it, so I can&rsquo;t blame him at all. I just really wanna make out with him more! </blockquote>17.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/OccasionalAnhedonia/">OccasionalAnhedonia</a>:<blockquote> His sneezing. He is allergic and can&#39;t help it. But he scream-sneezes every day, usually several times in a row, and I HATE loud sudden noises. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>18.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Photographydudeman/">Photographydudeman</a>:<blockquote> Her family is too detail oriented about insignificant stuff. Like, I&rsquo;ll have to explain what isle I went down in the grocery store before I can keep explaining what happened to me while shopping. Or her parents go into excruciating detail about what they ordered for lunch at Wendy&rsquo;s. For f**k sake I love her and her family to death but god I couldn&rsquo;t care less about half the conversations they have. </blockquote><blockquote> It sounds bad and shallow, but conversation with her extended family is even worse. I usually stick with &ldquo;not much, what&rsquo;s new with you?&rdquo; &ldquo;Oh wow that&rsquo;s interesting&rdquo; and walk away. </blockquote>19.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/cookiedough1414/">cookiedough1414</a>:<blockquote> He takes about 5 years to tell a story. Takes little detours and goes into too much info about random stuff I don&rsquo;t really need to know in order to understand the story! I mean don&rsquo;t get me wrong it&rsquo;s funny at the best of times but when you&rsquo;re in a hurry and your waiting for the story to end 🤦🏼&zwj;♀️ </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>20.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/usspaceforce/">usspaceforce</a>:<blockquote> She watches YouTube/Tik Tok videos on her phone and refuses to use headphones/earbuds. I hate it. </blockquote>21.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/nightmarengine/">nightmarengine</a>:<blockquote> She&#39;s the worst dirty talker I&#39;ve ever heard of. </blockquote>22.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/A_Wallaby/">A_Wallaby</a>:<blockquote> Everything else about her is perfect. But I could say something and she just gets quiet and passive for days at a time. Like what the f**k did I do, I genuinely don&rsquo;t know and I can&rsquo;t apologize if I don&rsquo;t know what I did. </blockquote>23.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/YungSwiggitySwag/">YungSwiggitySwag</a>:<blockquote> I love when she&#39;s happy. I love that she feels joy.... but that laugh is shrill enough to raise the dead </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>24.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/FlavorBlastedTears/">FlavorBlastedTears</a>:<blockquote> She&#39;s usually right. Damnit. Don&#39;t tell her I said that. </blockquote>25.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/kambinks/">kambinks</a>:<blockquote> She posts motivational posters on Facebook. It cringes me the f out. </blockquote>26.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/vampyreprincess/">vampyreprincess</a>:<blockquote> Someone knew that he knows and &quot;had a great friendship/whatever&quot; with dies like every couple months. He thinks everyone he has had any interaction with is his friend and takes it way too personally. A few years back he told me his best friend died, I assumed - as any reasonable person would- this was a great friend that he had talked to and hung out with a lot, maybe because of life they drifted a little bit. Nope. It was a kid he knew when he was 4 and hadn&#39;t spoken to since he was 6. It had been a solid 2 decades since they had any contact except maybe the occasional Facebook heart or whatever. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>27.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/cake--96/">cake--96</a>:<blockquote> sometimes he just won&rsquo;t stop talking. he has terrible awareness of when someone&rsquo;s trying to leave a conversation. i&rsquo;ll be trying to watch a movie or something and he&rsquo;ll just be chatting away at me. and when he drinks it gets 1000x worse. i just want to say &ldquo; i love you but please shut the hell up&rdquo; but i don&rsquo;t wanna hurt his feelings. he&rsquo;s still really cute tho. </blockquote>28.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/implicitxdemand/">implicitxdemand</a>:<blockquote> they&rsquo;re not very intellectual. he&rsquo;s a sweet and caring guy and incredible otherwise but sometimes I get frustrated with our conversations and the lack of mental stimulation </blockquote>29.) From <a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/offspring515/">offspring515</a>:<div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> She&#39;s a low-key hoarder who then gets upset at me for our house not being tidy and well organized. It&#39;s not trash or dead cats or whatever you see in reality tv. It&#39;s just stuff. Continuously accumulating things and not wanting to let them go. Yet still being mad when we have no room. </blockquote><blockquote> I recently organized our coat closet. She had coats she hasn&#39;t worn in 5 years in there. Wouldn&#39;t donate them. Had to fold them up and put them in a storage bin in our basement. I did this KNOWING that bin will sit unused and untouched in our basement for the next decade. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

29 people in relationships share the thing they secretly hate about their partner.

Romantic relationships require a certain degree of acceptance for your partner&#39;s weird habits and personality quirks, but that doesn&#39;t mean you have to like them. You might even hate them. If there&#39;s nothing you hate about your partner, congrats, but also you probably just haven&#39;t been together long enough for you to find out....In a popular Reddit thread, someone asked people in relationships: &quot;What do you hate about your partner, but can&rsquo;t tell them?&quot;These 29 people spill the dirt on the things about their partner they secretly can&#39;t stand, and they range from adorable quirks to probably grounds for a divorce:1.) From stln3rd: My wife took singing lessons as a kid. She is certain that she has a great singing voice. She does not. It&rsquo;s so hard to be in the same house when she&rsquo;s singing but I love her dearly and would never ask her to stop. 2.) From 1980pzx: I wake up teetering on the edge of the bed, every f**king night. We have a king size bed and she is petite, I tell her but it doesn&rsquo;t matter. Every. F**king. Night. 3.) From DrFridayTK: The way she pronounces the word &quot;hamburger&quot; makes me die inside. &quot;ham BIRD gr&quot; 4.) From StGir1: He&rsquo;s really really bad at taking criticism. Really bad. And I can&rsquo;t tell him this because feedback loop etc. 5.) From demonj00: That she sounds like a horse when she eats a bowl of cereal. 6.) From ArrdenGarden: She has a hard time cleaning up after herself. I work full time during the week, she works weekends. The house is a mess during the week and spotless during the weekend. Monday night, I come home and it&#39;s a mess again. Oof, lady. Get it together.  And the way she drinks. Gulps everything like she out of air and the only way to get more is to suck it off the bottom of whatever vessel she&#39;s drinking out of. Food noises kill me and she knows it but the gulping is unconscious so I try not to let it bother me. Love her more than everything. She&#39;s my best friend in all ways. But those are the two. 7.) From BusinessFeeling7121: She&rsquo;s one of those people that walks too slow in the grocery store and stands there looking at sh*t forever trying to decide what to get not aware that 2 other people right behind her trying to grab what she&rsquo;s in front of and go 8.) From sparklingjunkie: The sound he makes when he eats bagels. Not everything, just bagels, and he eats bagels every morning for breakfast. It&rsquo;s disgusting. 9.) From imav8n: That they expect an apology for every hurt feeling, but almost never take accountability or apologize for their own actions when they hurt other people. 10.) From nagol93: How indecisive she can be. We&#39;ve talked and she&#39;s doing better. But it is extremely exhausting to plan nearly every single date/event/thing we do. 11.) From BeatnikWoman: His snoring. It&#39;s not something he can necessarily control but he snores SO loud that it disrupts my sleep. 12.) From CaliforniaCow: I hate how she&rsquo;s a bad listener. Never wants to know about my day, never takes my advice, never wants to know what&rsquo;s wrong with me. 13.) From NearbyPage6955: How low her patience is &amp; how fast she can get irritated, and i know how she is &amp; I know she doesn&rsquo;t mean it 99% of the time, but sometimes it has me overthinking and I feel like she just hates me 14.) From lesliebNOPE: He&rsquo;s a bad kisser. I tried hard to communicate and help in the beginning of the relationship, but nothing worked or stuck. It&rsquo;s been a lot of years. I gave up. 15.) From TunaFishSammie321: We&rsquo;re completely different regarding physical affection. 16.) From TigerRose1226: I don&rsquo;t necessarily hate this about him, but he doesn&rsquo;t like to just kiss/make out. He will do it before sexy times, but not for very long. I love showing affection and intimacy by just making out sometimes and not having it lead to anything. He had some trauma with it, so I can&rsquo;t blame him at all. I just really wanna make out with him more! 17.) From OccasionalAnhedonia: His sneezing. He is allergic and can&#39;t help it. But he scream-sneezes every day, usually several times in a row, and I HATE loud sudden noises. 18.) From Photographydudeman: Her family is too detail oriented about insignificant stuff. Like, I&rsquo;ll have to explain what isle I went down in the grocery store before I can keep explaining what happened to me while shopping. Or her parents go into excruciating detail about what they ordered for lunch at Wendy&rsquo;s. For f**k sake I love her and her family to death but god I couldn&rsquo;t care less about half the conversations they have.  It sounds bad and shallow, but conversation with her extended family is even worse. I usually stick with &ldquo;not much, what&rsquo;s new with you?&rdquo; &ldquo;Oh wow that&rsquo;s interesting&rdquo; and walk away. 19.) From cookiedough1414: He takes about 5 years to tell a story. Takes little detours and goes into too much info about random stuff I don&rsquo;t really need to know in order to understand the story! I mean don&rsquo;t get me wrong it&rsquo;s funny at the best of times but when you&rsquo;re in a hurry and your waiting for the story to end 🤦🏼&zwj;♀️ 20.) From usspaceforce: She watches YouTube/Tik Tok videos on her phone and refuses to use headphones/earbuds. I hate it. 21.) From nightmarengine: She&#39;s the worst dirty talker I&#39;ve ever heard of. 22.) From A_Wallaby: Everything else about her is perfect. But I could say something and she just gets quiet and passive for days at a time. Like what the f**k did I do, I genuinely don&rsquo;t know and I can&rsquo;t apologize if I don&rsquo;t know what I did. 23.) From YungSwiggitySwag: I love when she&#39;s happy. I love that she feels joy.... but that laugh is shrill enough to raise the dead 24.) From FlavorBlastedTears: She&#39;s usually right. Damnit. Don&#39;t tell her I said that. 25.) From kambinks: She posts motivational posters on Facebook. It cringes me the f out. 26.) From vampyreprincess: Someone knew that he knows and &quot;had a great friendship/whatever&quot; with dies like every couple months. He thinks everyone he has had any interaction with is his friend and takes it way too personally. A few years back he told me his best friend died, I assumed - as any reasonable person would- this was a great friend that he had talked to and hung out with a lot, maybe because of life they drifted a little bit. Nope. It was a kid he knew when he was 4 and hadn&#39;t spoken to since he was 6. It had been a solid 2 decades since they had any contact except maybe the occasional Facebook heart or whatever. 27.) From cake--96: sometimes he just won&rsquo;t stop talking. he has terrible awareness of when someone&rsquo;s trying to leave a conversation. i&rsquo;ll be trying to watch a movie or something and he&rsquo;ll just be chatting away at me. and when he drinks it gets 1000x worse. i just want to say &ldquo; i love you but please shut the hell up&rdquo; but i don&rsquo;t wanna hurt his feelings. he&rsquo;s still really cute tho. 28.) From implicitxdemand: they&rsquo;re not very intellectual. he&rsquo;s a sweet and caring guy and incredible otherwise but sometimes I get frustrated with our conversations and the lack of mental stimulation 29.) From offspring515: She&#39;s a low-key hoarder who then gets upset at me for our house not being tidy and well organized. It&#39;s not trash or dead cats or whatever you see in reality tv. It&#39;s just stuff. Continuously accumulating things and not wanting to let them go. Yet still being mad when we have no room.  I recently organized our coat closet. She had coats she hasn&#39;t worn in 5 years in there. Wouldn&#39;t donate them. Had to fold them up and put them in a storage bin in our basement. I did this KNOWING that bin will sit unused and untouched in our basement for the next decade. 

Romantic relationships require a certain degree of acceptance for your partner&#39;s weird habits and personality quirks, but that doesn&#39;t mean you have to like them. You might even hate them. If there&#39;s nothing you hate about your...