Reddit user DrOttoDO isn't getting married anytime soon, but she still has something to celebrate—she's close to getting her medical degree. So she sent out this Save the Date to her friends and family instead:

A cute way to celebrate the completion of a lot of hard work, right? Not according to Reddit, where many of the commenters saw her as oh no a woman doctor!!!! "smug." Here's a sampling of some of the responses: