Ah, weddings—the most special day in the lives of so many people. The day two people who love each other very much commit to stay together 'til death do them part, with their friends and family there to witness it. OR they can be a total crapfest, depending on the many variables that come into play. You can plan and plan (or, in some of these cases, not plan at all, which is not really the best idea), but there's only so much you can control. Will the guests get too drunk? Will the bride get too drunk? Will the weather cooperate? Will the food be good, will the flowers arrive, will the kids behave? There's just no way to tell. And yet, people continue to risk it. Below are 22 stories, mostly from Reddit, about weddings gone bad. May you have better luck on your special day.