While it's nice to give people a second chance and not immediately write someone off because of one questionable first date move, there are some behaviors or opinions that are just complete dealbreakers in a romantic partner. If you're dating to find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, you might have to be relatively selective about the red flags that creep up. Don't assume people will change, run at the first sign of doom!
So, when a Reddit user asked, "What is something that instantly killed the crush you had on someone?" people were ready to share the moment all of the romantic energy officially left the room.
Started dating a girl, after a couple of weeks I went to her house and it was a disgusting mess. Trash piled up everywhere, old food and fast food drinks. They had a bunch of animals and didn’t clean up after them when they ate, there was rotten wet food all over the floor and walls. - Boyburnsgrey