Crushes are wonderful and humiliating.
Whether you're 13 years old or 45, that feeling of anxiety around someone you're attracted to can be all-consuming. At times, it can cause us to do ridiculous things in order to catch the attention of a crush.
If you've ever embarrassed yourself trying to get the attention of a love interest, or even to keep one on the hook, you're far from alone.
I am a girl. I was 6’1” tall on the first day of 11th grade. The basketball coach followed me to my math class and informed me that I was on the team and tryouts were on X day at Y time and he expected me to be there to start strong.
There was a boy I liked who just so happened to be on the basketball team, so I showed up thinking that I’d get to be around him. That did turn out to be true; the girls and boys teams often crossed paths. On a few occasions, we shared the gym.