So, when a Reddit user asked married people of the internet, "what usual mistakes do you see younger couples making?" people who have been with their partners for many years were ready to reveal the biggest red flags they notice from inexperienced couples.
Not knowing how to responsibly handle money is the first thing that comes to mind - alicialimonado
Being right is less important than the fact that you love each other.
Someday, one of us is going to have to say goodbye to the other. When that happens, every single moment I wasted being angry about minor things will be a huge regret. This is the sort of thing that doesn't really occur to you when you're young and indestructible. - vilnyi_vid_liudei
Don't hint. Not worth it. "Wow, those flowers are beautiful" is not a call to action. "I'd really love it if sometimes you picked me up flowers for no reason. It makes me feel super loved." Is so much better and clearer. - paintwhore