While it's always brave to "shoot your shot," learning how to gracefully accept rejection is crucial to being a respectful bar customer. If the woman next to you doesn't want to join you for a green tea shot, just leave her alone! She's not going to change her mind if you lurk around her lower back for five minutes longer, sir!
So, when a frustrated bar owner decided to consult the online courtroom of moral philosophy otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole" about whether or not he was wrong to ban "bar moms" from the bar he owns, people were quick to help deem a verdict.
Me (32M) and Nicky (31F) have been together for 2 and a half years. We have a great connection despite being total opposites. Nicky is a high school art teacher and I work in finance. Our friend groups represent us really well with my friends being into sports, golf and stocks. Her friends are very artsy and into social causes.