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<h2>Wedding etiquette and rules for guests have become so intense that brides will ruin friendships over bridesmaids not covering their tattoos or wearing their hair in the perfect, &quot;casual but classy beachy curl.&quot;</h2><p>While some demands are approaching the dreaded &quot;bridezilla&quot; territory, there are still some wedding faux pas that should always be avoided. Don&#39;t do anything to take attention away from the couple getting married such as proposing to your plus one or announcing your pregnancy during the speeches, don&#39;t wear a white gown, don&#39;t give a drunken impromptu toast about how the bride had three one-night stands in one week in college and try to avoid squeezing out the open bar for all it&#39;s worth. It&#39;s one thing to casually sip champagne on the dance floor, but it&#39;s a bold move to take ten tequila shots with the bartender and then take nudes in the polaroid photo booth. The bride never forgets what you did, cousin Clarissa!</p><p>So, when an angry bride decided to consult the moral compass of the internet otherwise known as Reddit&#39;s &quot;Am I the As*hole&quot; about whether or not she was wrong to accuse her mother-in-law of trying to long-distance upstage her on her wedding day, people were quick to help deem a verdict.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/p15uz2/aita_for_calling_my_mil_pathetic_for_wearing_a/">AITA</a> (Am I the As*hole) for calling my mother-in-law &quot;pathetic&quot; for wearing a white dress on my wedding day, though she didn&#39;t come to the wedding?</h2><blockquote> <p>MIL was invited to our wedding but chose not to come, because she couldn&#39;t pick her color first (mother of the bride picks first) and then she decided to go no-contact with us. This is not out of character. She has literally always been like this, plus my mom teased her a little over the color and MIL lost her sh*t.</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>MIL is slightly back in contact with us. She still isn&#39;t speaking to us, but has let up enough to be in the same room. the other day we were at a family gathering and SIL called MIL out on partying in Vegas when she was supposed to be at our wedding. MIL denied it and said she was at home sleeping, so SIL pulled out the instagram proof.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>MIL posted a bunch of pics with her boyfriend in Vegas and she was wearing a white cocktail dress. I just felt like white was a random color if she wasn&#39;t trying to make a statement. I made a joke that even without going to the wedding, she found a way to be &quot;<strong><em>that&quot;</em></strong> MIL. I said I&#39;m glad she put it on insta so she can look pathetic for eternity.</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>Her boyfriend claims it is normal to have a white cocktail dress and I&#39;m just pasty and ugly. At that point my husband lost his sh*t and said I was right, she was pathetic and trying to feel like a bride. MIL left but MIL&#39;s mom started to cry and said we were bullying her daughter for no reason.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>That hurt because I used to like MIL&#39;s mom, but she has changed lately and been so far up MIL&#39;s a*s and she now only cooks food for MIL&#39;s boyfriend because she likes his job. My husband said he was disappointed in his grandmother, but gets it is her daughter, but he said I am 100% right and she looked like a joke in that white dress and deserved to be called out.</p> </blockquote><h2>Here&#39;s what the jury of internet strangers had to say:</h2><blockquote> <p>There is absolutely no rule, written or unwritten, that says someone can&#39;t wear white on the same day as a wedding if they don&#39;t actually attend the wedding. You, your husband and your mother behaved horribly to a woman that did nothing but avoid your wedding because she didn&#39;t want to deal with you. YTA (You&#39;re the As*hole) - GlaxenFlux</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>YTA. She wasn&#39;t at the wedding &amp; you still made a big deal about a white dress? That&#39;s pathetic. The whole idea of &quot;nobody can wear white on the day of my wedding&quot; it&#39;s pathetic. Must be miserable - 7-11-21-Luck</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>YTA. She wasn&#39;t trying to draw attention away from the bride by wearing a bridal gown to a wedding.... She literally wasn&#39;t even AT the wedding. Who cares what she wore? Why would you make a joke at the expense of someone who is barely speaking to you? (even if that reason sounds petty af, to be fair). - AlphaQueen3</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>YTA. So now brides are claiming control of the color anyone wears on their &quot;special day&quot; even if they&#39;re not in attendance? Get over yourself. No one but you cares about your wedding. You are a bully and so is your mom for teasing your MIL. Due to both you and your mom bullying your MIL, I&#39;m going to assume you&#39;re embellishing your MILs reaction so MIL is not the as*hole. - JazzSlits2as</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>YTA and sound just as awful as her. Who cares what she was wearing when she wasn&rsquo;t at your wedding. Calling her pathetic was just uncalled for and gross behavior from you. - SailorPrincess28</p> </blockquote><h2>So, there you have it!</h2><p>Everyone agreed that this bride was completely wrong to accuse her husband&#39;s mother of trying to steal her spotlight when she wasn&#39;t even at the wedding. Other people are allowed to wear white dresses out in the world, even if there happen to be people getting married that day. Good luck, everyone!</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Bride asks if she was wrong to call out mother-in-law who wore white on her wedding day.

Wedding etiquette and rules for guests have become so intense that brides will ruin friendships over bridesmaids not covering their tattoos or wearing their hair in the perfect, &quot;casual but classy beachy curl.&quot;While some demands are approaching the dreaded &quot;bridezilla&quot; territory, there are still some wedding faux pas that should always be avoided. Don&#39;t do anything to take attention away from the couple getting married such as proposing to your plus one or announcing your pregnancy during the speeches, don&#39;t wear a white gown, don&#39;t give a drunken impromptu toast about how the bride had three one-night stands in one week in college and try to avoid squeezing out the open bar for all it&#39;s worth. It&#39;s one thing to casually sip champagne on the dance floor, but it&#39;s a bold move to take ten tequila shots with the bartender and then take nudes in the polaroid photo booth. The bride never forgets what you did, cousin Clarissa!So, when an angry bride decided to consult the moral compass of the internet otherwise known as Reddit&#39;s &quot;Am I the As*hole&quot; about whether or not she was wrong to accuse her mother-in-law of trying to long-distance upstage her on her wedding day, people were quick to help deem a verdict.AITA (Am I the As*hole) for calling my mother-in-law &quot;pathetic&quot; for wearing a white dress on my wedding day, though she didn&#39;t come to the wedding? MIL was invited to our wedding but chose not to come, because she couldn&#39;t pick her color first (mother of the bride picks first) and then she decided to go no-contact with us. This is not out of character. She has literally always been like this, plus my mom teased her a little over the color and MIL lost her sh*t.   MIL is slightly back in contact with us. She still isn&#39;t speaking to us, but has let up enough to be in the same room. the other day we were at a family gathering and SIL called MIL out on partying in Vegas when she was supposed to be at our wedding. MIL denied it and said she was at home sleeping, so SIL pulled out the instagram proof.   MIL posted a bunch of pics with her boyfriend in Vegas and she was wearing a white cocktail dress. I just felt like white was a random color if she wasn&#39;t trying to make a statement. I made a joke that even without going to the wedding, she found a way to be &quot;that&quot; MIL. I said I&#39;m glad she put it on insta so she can look pathetic for eternity.   Her boyfriend claims it is normal to have a white cocktail dress and I&#39;m just pasty and ugly. At that point my husband lost his sh*t and said I was right, she was pathetic and trying to feel like a bride. MIL left but MIL&#39;s mom started to cry and said we were bullying her daughter for no reason.   That hurt because I used to like MIL&#39;s mom, but she has changed lately and been so far up MIL&#39;s a*s and she now only cooks food for MIL&#39;s boyfriend because she likes his job. My husband said he was disappointed in his grandmother, but gets it is her daughter, but he said I am 100% right and she looked like a joke in that white dress and deserved to be called out. Here&#39;s what the jury of internet strangers had to say: There is absolutely no rule, written or unwritten, that says someone can&#39;t wear white on the same day as a wedding if they don&#39;t actually attend the wedding. You, your husband and your mother behaved horribly to a woman that did nothing but avoid your wedding because she didn&#39;t want to deal with you. YTA (You&#39;re the As*hole) - GlaxenFlux   YTA. She wasn&#39;t at the wedding &amp; you still made a big deal about a white dress? That&#39;s pathetic. The whole idea of &quot;nobody can wear white on the day of my wedding&quot; it&#39;s pathetic. Must be miserable - 7-11-21-Luck   YTA. She wasn&#39;t trying to draw attention away from the bride by wearing a bridal gown to a wedding.... She literally wasn&#39;t even AT the wedding. Who cares what she wore? Why would you make a joke at the expense of someone who is barely speaking to you? (even if that reason sounds petty af, to be fair). - AlphaQueen3   YTA. So now brides are claiming control of the color anyone wears on their &quot;special day&quot; even if they&#39;re not in attendance? Get over yourself. No one but you cares about your wedding. You are a bully and so is your mom for teasing your MIL. Due to both you and your mom bullying your MIL, I&#39;m going to assume you&#39;re embellishing your MILs reaction so MIL is not the as*hole. - JazzSlits2as   YTA and sound just as awful as her. Who cares what she was wearing when she wasn&rsquo;t at your wedding. Calling her pathetic was just uncalled for and gross behavior from you. - SailorPrincess28 So, there you have it!Everyone agreed that this bride was completely wrong to accuse her husband&#39;s mother of trying to steal her spotlight when she wasn&#39;t even at the wedding. Other people are allowed to wear white dresses out in the world, even if there happen to be people getting married that day. Good luck, everyone!

Wedding etiquette and rules for guests have become so intense that brides will ruin friendships over bridesmaids not covering their tattoos or wearing their hair in the perfect, &quot;casual but classy beachy curl.&quot;  While some...