Is it really worth it to rant about that waitress who didn't smile enough at you if it means she might not be able to pay her rent this month? So, when a conflicted bride decided to consult the moral compass of the internet otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole" about whether or not she was wrong to jeopardize her photographer's job, people were eager to chime in.
I got married two months ago, was a moderate affair, open bar, nice dress, no kids at a slightly more upscale place than I would have liked but I guess you only live once. We hired a photographer through a company, a mid-sized place that assigned you an employee. We met with her a few times to go over expectations, venues, etc. No red flags, nothing weird.