Bachelorette parties are infamous for heavy drinking, strip clubs, gambling, R-rated gag gifts, and a whole lot of conversation that is just not appropriate for a young teenager. Traditionally, the entire bridal party would be invited to the bachelorette party, but if a bride chooses to have junior bridesmaids, or anyone under eighteen, in her bridal party, it makes sense that they might be excluded from a few other wedding-related events.
Censoring a party because a child is around isn't fun for anyone involved, and it's important to respect the wishes of the couple getting married if they want to keep some events entirely child-free. It's hard to let loose with the surprise "pizza man" when your sister is insisting you invite her kid to the vodka-chugging contest in "Sin City." So, when a frustrated bride decided to consult the courtroom of moral philosophy otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole?" about her niece's desire to attend her Vegas-themed bachelorette party, people were quick to offer advice.