Supporting a friend's relationship can be tough when you have different philosophies about love, gender, and power dynamics. Ideally, everyone will love each other's partners and you can support your friend's relationships honestly. But differences of opinion can easily crop up, which presents the question of whether it's best to keep your mouth shut or speak your piece.
In most cases, it's best to make your opinion known before you commit to being in someone's wedding, but life isn't always that cut and dry.
AITA for calling out my best friend's hypocrisy right before her wedding?
Coincidentally, OP's boyfriend also proposed a few days ago - making their wedding time frames relatively close.
I am maid of honor for my best friend Becca and the wedding is in a few days. Coincidentally, my boyfriend Tom proposed to me a few days ago. I asked Becca if she'd like to be my maid of honour, and she refused on a ''matter of principle''.