So, when a frustrated former bridesmaid decided to consult the courtroom of moral philosophy otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole?" about whether or not she's obligated to attend a bachelorette party for a bride who recently got divorced, people were quick to offer advice.
A friend had to reschedule her 2020 wedding and bachelorette trip to 2021. We organized a local bach event at a restaurant before her small 2020 ceremony. She got legally married a month later, and now is getting divorced! (and is canceling her 2021 big wedding).
The trip was rescheduled to May 2021. I'm dreading it, it was expensive and she's been a bridezilla (see below). I don't want to upset her, but I need to figure out what to do soon before people start asking me what the plan is bc I booked everything. To get a refund we have to cancel everything in the next 3 weeks.